This is bullshiit. Becoming attracted to soemone you spend alot of time with means you don't fukk or have low standards? Yall nikkas is hella dumb,
What was it that attracted you to her besides time? What made her attractive that you didn't see in the first week you were around her. Did her ass get fatter, did she get more pretty, was she more pleasant in the office? Would still be looking at her like that if you were smashing something twice a week?
All that changed is you "got to know her better" that aint enough for me to risk a job over. But everyone is different.
Real Question: What makes her more attractive in week 10 than in week 1 for you?
I think one major hole in your argument bro is that Americans fukking work, ALOT.
Tons of people are basically married to their careers and it consumes them so it becomes that much easier to just meet someone on the job since you’re there all the time and that’s where your energy is directed.
I work 60+ a week regularly. Never been an issue for me to find a woman outside work and thats not including dating apps, etc which can be used from your phone. I know guys that work 70+ standard that still make time to go outside.
that's not how that works..... if you got issues in your relationship, you will most definitely fukk a 6 if she is choosing and you like her vibe and you're around her 40 hours a week....... those arbitrary internet rankings yall using don't mean shyt in real life
If "issues in your relationship" means you start fuking co-workers you have no business being in relationship because it means you're volatile and self destructive. I was going through a divorce i didn't initiate, none of the pretty women at work suddenly got sexier, i just took my ass outside and started socializing. Imagine getting into it with your lady, so to "feel better" you start fuking co-workers. In what world does that make sense?
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The only reason to fuk a coworker is proximity, which is a lazy, undisciplined reason. It's full course meals outside waiting to have a good time but yall rather eat the bag of potato chips at work with reasons like:
"I work alot"
"I'm having problems with my lady"
"We spend alot of time around each other"
I can understand on one level if you're trying to take her serious and get a relationship poppin. But just to smash? Nah. It's too many good women outside the job for me to risk it with Regina in Accounts Payable.