People with kids, should date people with kids. It's easier
100% agreed… single mothers gotta understand, if they spent their 20’s making babies with nikkas who weren’t suitable/compatible for long term relationships, at the end of the day, that’s on them. They made their bed. It’s harsh, it’s unforgiving, but some things in life are just like that…
Us as men tend to learn this early in life for the simple fact that being a man in the world can be very consequential at times.
If a man chose to be more careful during his 20’s and is childless, there is always gonna be a chance that he don’t wanna take on your kids and your readymade situation.
Plus if he has a chance to be put first by a chick with no kids, why would he choose to be put LAST (constantly) by a chick who already done traveled these roads before? Already has people in her life who come first… a real man doesn’t wanna constantly feel like a back-up.
It kind of a no brained in most cases.
It hurts them to accept that but, some single mothers need to put their “big girl” pants on and understand that dating is typically gonna be inevitably harder for them and just get over it cause no one put a gun to their heads and told them to have kids before they found their lifelong partner
