Now I don't enjoy having female friends because we usually don't have major things in common but I'm not against it. What do you have in common? Me going out and if they into sports or working out. Outside of that I'm not going to be talking to chick about the same stuff I do with a guy. I also know off top if I'm trying to mess with a chick so friendship isn't an option in that case. Now girl friends that are dating/have dated my boys or other chicks I can't get with boys family, unattractive something like that we can be cool.
It's not so much what i have in common with them as much as it's what they like outta me or what i like out of them as people. Philosophy, current events, my life, their life, weed sessions. There's a lot to talk about my g. I dont talk sports with these women
and im not on the phone with these women for hours on end. In general im good at maintaining relationships from a considerable distance. I'm there for them in certain lights (usually as guidance) cause thats how i am as a person. There's always flirting involved but just because I would smash doesn't mean i have to smash. Sometimes boyfriends play a part but overwhelmingly it's not the case. I can talk about women w these girls in a way i can't with my dudes. It's just a different perspective.
I've had sex with most of my female friends. What happens is it starts off as potentially one thing then fades into another. usually a mutual thing, or it's something they learn to like. I have a couple female friends ive known for years where the timing has been off, but i've grown to appreciate the friendship
I like telling women i wont have sex with them...even if i would if they pressed.