naw but the ones that give diamond necklaces to little tweens/prepubescent kids are suspectAll stepdads are pedos that wanna smash their stepchildren?
naw but the ones that give diamond necklaces to little tweens/prepubescent kids are suspectAll stepdads are pedos that wanna smash their stepchildren?
It takes a helluva muthafukka to raise someone else's child...
i think 80% of porn broads step dads had a piece of them at that young age
So u guys are looking at the next porn star name Anal Digest
Look man, some situations are out of the single parent's hands......and for someone to take that spot and be there for that child is something a know plenty people would've paid for growing up. There's not one person who enjoyed not having two parents in their household, who enjoyed not knowing or having a relationship with their father or mother, not receiving the same life lessons, knowledge, wisdom and care from a man or woman in the household who protects, teaches and respects the child. Not one.Yeah one helluva loser
Look man, some situations are out of the single parent's hands......and for someone to take that spot and be there for that child is something a know plenty people would've paid for growing up. There's not one person who enjoyed not having two parents in their household, who enjoyed not knowing or having a relationship with their father or mother, not receiving the same life lessons, knowledge, wisdom and care from a man or woman in the household who protects, teaches and respects the child. Not one.
For someone with good intention to step in takes a lot of courage, especially with these scandalous women out here lying about their situation. Unfortunately, some dudes get suckered in by a sob story and get used up. However, I feel that if you're well equipped in game you should be able to read someone, it's something anyone can do if they pay attention and don't get caught up in emotions or the physical. Personally I don't want to raise someone else's child, but it's not because I'm too smart to be played or I'm too cool to be in that situation, it's just a heavy burden that I don't want any parts of at this time of my life.
So u guys are looking at the next porn star name Anal Digest
You said it right there. It may be a wonderful thing for the child, and a bail out for the single parent, but that doesn't eliminate the fact you're being used. You're being latched onto as a life preserver for the shytty disposition of others, and most of the time they are to blame for being in that situation. If you didn't use birth control and you have a baby by a nikka who isn't committed to you, you share some of that blame.
Unless you're very much a selfless man who lacks an amount of pride, why would you willingly be a captain save a hoe and allow yourself to be the life preserver of bad decisions? Would you be given the same chance? Now you'll probably say something about the sake of the child/children, but you can always adopt if you're that determined to raise a child that isn't your own because you couldn't find a woman who was willing to do that with you.
Exactly, my mind never even went THERE when I saw the commercial
that's all good, there's no shame in wifing a single mother if you love her and if she is worth your love to you. having a child is not a plague.Adoption is a great idea........but if you're single, it's a good chance it won't happen. You usually have to be married and fit other criteria, but it varies I'm sure.
Some men don't care about how other see them nor their opinions. Hell, no man is supposed to be seeking approval from anyone unless it's their close loved ones. It's not like someone is gonna run up on em and say "How dare you provide a father figure for those children?!" in the middle of an Applebee's
Are most single mothers victims of their own bad decision making with men, I believe so. Still, I won't judge until I know the situation because unforeseen circumstances such as accidents, disease, war, random acts of violence, etc have take many of parents unexpectedly. For the women who made bad decisions, it depends on the situation, but as long as no danger is involved and the woman isn't just out trying to use him up to move on to the next one, I salute that man for doing what some large percentage of black fathers refuse...
Real talk, whenever I hear someone in real life start bad mouthing kids I give em that work, shyt is not tolerated around me Bad mouthing bad kids is differentthat's all good, there's no shame in wifing a single mother if you love her and if she is worth your love to you. having a child is not a plague.
but did dude really need to buy the little girl a necklace?
its a commercial.that's all good, there's no shame in wifing a single mother if you love her and if she is worth your love to you. having a child is not a plague.
but did dude really need to buy the little girl a necklace?
*looks at usernameThat is a REAL MAN able to ignore that the kid isn't his and still love her unconditionally.