eh, society tells women that his looks don’t matter as much as his wallet/resources, character and how he treats you. So when it comes to commitment women tend to not put looks at the top of their priorities.
what's funny is, is that men and women are opposite in this regard.
look at hookups for example, when it comes to a hookup, a woman is more likely to seek out someone they are physically attracted to entirely. As in their list of dudes they hooked up with will be more "attractive" than the dudes they partnered with.
whereas a dude will do that too, but also will fukk a chick that they'd never really date physically. Because they just want that nut. However in dating, depending on the
capabilities of the dude, we ideally want to wife that chick that is physically everything we want along with being a cool person.
women I feel separate attraction from commitment. As in many will opt for a committed relationship with someone stable and committed but maybe 3rd tier to them as far as raw attraction goes. Men want the raw attraction even in a committed relationship.