Should finances be reserved for marriage?

[Rhapscallion Démone]

A couple is on a date. The woman says sex is out of the question because she saving herself for marriage. The man suggests they go Dutch from there on. He believes finances should be saved for marriage

Is the man right in this scenario?

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[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

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[Rhapscallion Démone]

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Thanks I just edited the OP and broke down the scenario

 

[MikelArteta]

They want it one way not the other.

Imagine dating a woman who makes just as much or even more than you but you gotta spend constantly

 

[Kornball The Conqueror]

No right answer, just two adult configuring there ideal business

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

They want it one way not the other.

Imagine dating a woman who makes just as much or even more than you but you gotta spend constantly

What if she just old fashioned and believes in courtship in the traditional sense?

 

[13473]

are u implying that dinner is payment for sex?

 

[Token]

So he makes the decision to split everything down the middle only after she said no sex until marriage?



Anyway, if a man wants you to pay your own way in the relationship either do that or find someone else. I personally wouldn't mind it. I'm always prepared to spend my own money.

 

[Rhapscallion Démone]

are u implying that dinner is payment for sex?

To some it is lol.

 

[Ashley Banks]

No right answer, just two adult configuring there ideal business

This

 

[southern.girl]

I would advise that woman to find a celibate man that’s dating with purpose. She needs to avoid men who believe that she is obligated to exchange sex for dates, b/c that’s not her speed.

 

[Gold]

I applaud both of them for sticking to their core values. I also think that they are both going to need quite a bit of counseling post marriage.

Waiting until you are marrried is a helluva time to start learning how to do finances together and how to please each other sexually. It can work but it wont be easy at all. And a lot of the incentive to change kinda goes out the way once your married.

Yall dated 4 years and she never gave it up to you? Yeah dont expect yall to be fukkin everyday breh. Not much will change.


Yall dated 4 years and he never paid for a single thing 100%? Yeah dont expect him to start paying for dates and bills. Not much will change

 

[The Coochie Assassin]

are u implying that dinner is payment for sex?

Some men and women think so

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I applaud both of them for sticking to their core values. I also think that they are both going to need quite a bit of counseling post marriage.

Waiting until you are marrried is a helluva time to start learning how to do finances together and how to please each other sexually. It can work but it wont be easy at all. And a lot of the incentive to change kinda goes out the way once your married.

Yall dated 4 years and she never gave it up to you? Yeah dont expect yall to be fukkin everyday breh. Not much will change.


Yall dated 4 years and he never paid for a single thing 100%? Yeah dont expect him to start paying for dates and bills. Not much will change

perfect answer

 

[Dwayne_Taylor]

He needs to find a woman who isnt hiding behind religion to avoid commitment.

And she needs to run that game on a guy who shares her beliefs