valet
The official Chaplain of the Coli
Or should a child always stay in their place. Even as adult? Should parents in essence be treated as the pope. Words, infallible? Or is it ok to tell your parents they are wrong?
My mother is a nag. And she was going off on my sister today. I normally just keep quiet and let them do their thing. But today she went too far. Calling my sister an evil person. She just kept going and going.
My mother and sister have had their bouts in the past. Hurting each other. But today it was just too far. So I couldn't take it and told her to quit picking on her. Yeah, I know, normally I would scared she would slap me into next week. But I just hate people who bully other people. My pops joined in and called told my mama to "Shut up!! Shut up! Let it go". Of course, she pulled the black woman "it's my mouth and I can say what I want". So, I told her she was wrong for calling my sister evil. And that it was actually evil to keeping holding onto things of the past. And pretending like the issue they was arguing about was real issue. When it really about stuff that happen before.
She pulled the "I don't wanna hear it from you. You don't tell me what to do. You're my child."
My sister went out to the car and 20 minutes later my moms was on the phone. She hugged my moms, then me and told I was the best brother ever.
Again, I've never challenged my moms like that. But at the same time, I don't regret it. And would do it again. We're cool now but I could see some saying you should never talk back to your mother no matter what. What do yall think? Not about this issue specifically (unless you want to). But just the concept in general of not challenging your parents.
My mother is a nag. And she was going off on my sister today. I normally just keep quiet and let them do their thing. But today she went too far. Calling my sister an evil person. She just kept going and going.
My mother and sister have had their bouts in the past. Hurting each other. But today it was just too far. So I couldn't take it and told her to quit picking on her. Yeah, I know, normally I would scared she would slap me into next week. But I just hate people who bully other people. My pops joined in and called told my mama to "Shut up!! Shut up! Let it go". Of course, she pulled the black woman "it's my mouth and I can say what I want". So, I told her she was wrong for calling my sister evil. And that it was actually evil to keeping holding onto things of the past. And pretending like the issue they was arguing about was real issue. When it really about stuff that happen before.
She pulled the "I don't wanna hear it from you. You don't tell me what to do. You're my child."
My sister went out to the car and 20 minutes later my moms was on the phone. She hugged my moms, then me and told I was the best brother ever.
Again, I've never challenged my moms like that. But at the same time, I don't regret it. And would do it again. We're cool now but I could see some saying you should never talk back to your mother no matter what. What do yall think? Not about this issue specifically (unless you want to). But just the concept in general of not challenging your parents.
I have never done it, at least not seriously...more so jokingly. Our culture tends to be strict on respecting elders
but yeah you did what you had to do...