Take it from a happily married man who is probably older than you…when shhit starts getting dry/boring (and it will)…do that shhit.
Most men want to cheat, whether consciously or subconsciously, it’s just in us, pause. We’re pretty much the only mammals that are monogamous (I don’t believe that BS about wolves and bats, lol)…we’re going against nature trying to be these fake ass loyal men,
. The ones who want to be monogamous have been brainwashed into being like that by society and romantic comedies and shhit, lol. Salute to yall tho.
The only way to combat that, at least in my experience, is to fantasize. I’m not gonna get graphic…I’m not even necessarily talking about no hand activities…I’m saying though, watch adult films with your jawn and let the fantasies occur, you’ll be amazed how much she’s into it. Pause all this, btw