She wants to have kids...but...
- Thread starter Mr Uncle Leroy
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Mr Uncle Leroy
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ltr yeah...bringing her to the business side...so she see what it takes...and she does feel her clock is ticking and her sisters are moving in with bf another is divorced at 20 but might be getting married soon..
external factors, but she is she so bothered about keep up with "jones"?
ThumpDaddy
All Star
Well, if you think she's going to make a good mother y'all need to sit down and talk it out. Express your concern that you may feel that the both of you may not be finacially, mentally, or emotionally ready for children. See how she feels about that. Let her know that both of you have to be together on this.
JillScottsHunny
Banned
It's time for you to leave, sir.
Planned children without being married?
that's what I'm saying...
Unless you have no intention of ever getting married... That doesn't make much sense to me.
Mr Uncle Leroy
All Star
Planned children without being married?
I am BIG proponent of being married before kids...I really do advocate it...and I know if I go the unmarried route with kids, I am sure family members also wont be happy...like disown their own type of unhappiness
If the businesses goes as planned, I am looking at giving up 50% if I am married and divorce occurs...also thinking of that...a prenup/postnup might be handy...just looking at a win win...also when I get a bunch of dough, wanna have a battalion of offspring...crew of young folk to continue around the world...yeah its ambitious, but also looking at the reality of status quo/things remaining as is
Well here's the problem right here.... You don't go into marriage with someone you're worried about getting a divorce with.
If you're going into marriage worried about divorce... you don't need to marry that person, because that means you either doubt her, or you doubt yourself. And that's a recipe for disaster in a marriage...
Mr Uncle Leroy
All Star
Yeah, I be thinkin I'm good since she empties me beforehandbut I know any small amount can have me
quick
yeah but she can save some and put in there
Get married before you get divorced not the other way around.
Mr Uncle Leroy
All Star
looking ahead...
I think she might stick out...what if I wanted a divorce... give up 50% and she has yet to learn the business thus far...
just covering my bases...especially when the business takes off...
50% of marriages end in divorces...and I am flexible looking to try thing out...because, who know, you never know unless you try...
and kids of divorce turn out ok...bitter but ok...
they way I look at it...if it got to that point:
I will get combined custody, if not sole custody, communication, vacation with kid...I dont want that to happen if it did...I would not run from it.
I think she might stick out...what if I wanted a divorce... give up 50% and she has yet to learn the business thus far...
just covering my bases...especially when the business takes off...
50% of marriages end in divorces...and I am flexible looking to try thing out...because, who know, you never know unless you try...
and kids of divorce turn out ok...bitter but ok...
they way I look at it...if it got to that point:
I will get combined custody, if not sole custody, communication, vacation with kid...I dont want that to happen if it did...I would not run from it.
Mr Uncle Leroy
All Star
She thinks everything is in place for a kids...I tell her not really...
in the grand scheme of things, she can be part of the master plan
she wants kids...I can give her kids
she wants companion, I can give her companionship
but she gotta be open to lifestyle of building a nation...when the big dough comes of 100 ms and b's...I need me a nation...
she can the ring leader...but dont be mad at the females, whose have received my seeds for delivery...looking into the future 100ms and b...alternatively I can adopt as she say...but I can give her what she wants... ;)
in the grand scheme of things, she can be part of the master plan
she wants kids...I can give her kids
she wants companion, I can give her companionship
but she gotta be open to lifestyle of building a nation...when the big dough comes of 100 ms and b's...I need me a nation...
she can the ring leader...but dont be mad at the females, whose have received my seeds for delivery...looking into the future 100ms and b...alternatively I can adopt as she say...but I can give her what she wants... ;)
beenz
Rap Guerilla
Man if broad is hell bent on having a kid, it's gonna happen, cuz you know you ain't gonna be wearin rubbers with your main girl. Let's be reality here.
you right