indeed, it always is. i remember this one girl i had who always used to ask me if i would fight for her if she ever dumped me. i was like
not at all, you better think twice about doing that because if you do, i'm gone and you will never see me again. that is what kept her in check. now look at this guy trying to "fight" for a woman he isn't even exclusive with.
give her the
if it is powerplay, she will hate that you're indifferent towards her. NEVER give in to a womans powerplays. if it's not and she is really with somebody and things don't work out, she might call regardless of whether or not you present her with the option. if you're indifferent it will hurt her ego, regardless of whether or not she means what she says. she expects you to be pissed and will hate that you're not.
i went to a party once with this girl. at that party she met a guy she had gone on a couple of dates with. he made a move, she blocked, he never called her again. i knew her before we started going out, so i knew she went on those dates with him because she was flattered by the attention, but never intended to sleep with him. still, when he stopped calling she was pissed. so even though she was at the party as my date, she initiated conversation with this guy and talked to him for like half an hour. people looked at me like
why are you letting this happen? i could have been pissed, but instead i acted completely indifferent, chatted with a couple of female friends, and when they decided to leave, went to my date, told her i had to get up early the next day and to have fun, then left with them. the bytch was like
i messed up. send me a text the same night, talking about how she should have left with me, hit me up on fb the next couple of days trying to make conversation then started to call until she realized i wasn't going to respond.
never fight for a bytches attention, it makes you look weak. if she decides somebody else is more interesting, throw her in the bushes. anyways, since you're buddy is bagging all these broads, i'm sure he knows this himself.