She left me brehs

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been there done that (the one breaking it off but it still hurted)
but im still here and able to say happy friday yall


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We were together for 5 years, met at 25 and she just told me she don't wanna be with me anymore. We were going through rough patches but I was willing to fight through them but i guess she wasn't.

Brehs I bought this beautiful engagement ring custom made and I was ready and boom she's done with me just like that after all the shyt we went through. It feels like I lost my best friend and I just don't know how I'm gonna get through this shyt. I ain't never hurt this bad before. I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless. I can't eat and I'm barely sleeping I'm scared of what I might do :mjcry:
There in lies your problem. You were in your feminine and it forced her to be in her masculine. The power dynamic should have been flipped where she was crying on a message board about a break up and not you. Use this as a learning lesson to become more of a man
 

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OP..

You will be alright..

I don't mind you going thru your emotions, but don't do anything stupid and never again beg anyone to stay with you!

Develop the mindset of having an open door policy and understand that many women leave their relationships @ some point. Just imagine if you were married w/ kids??

Get yourself together, find stuff to do and maybe get right with your spirituality. Maybe your ex will come back around or maybe you will find someone better.
 

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We were together for 5 years, met at 25 and she just told me she don't wanna be with me anymore. We were going through rough patches but I was willing to fight through them but i guess she wasn't.

Brehs I bought this beautiful engagement ring custom made and I was ready and boom she's done with me just like that after all the shyt we went through. It feels like I lost my best friend and I just don't know how I'm gonna get through this shyt. I ain't never hurt this bad before. I even begged her like a fukkkng simp even though i knew it was pointless. I can't eat and I'm barely sleeping I'm scared of what I might do :mjcry:
Give it some time

If you're both the same age, something interesting is about to happen for you.

Your 30s are probably the second most transformative time in your life.

She'll realize, after some time alone, the value of a committed and safe relationship.

You will realize your value on the market, especially after a tried and tested 5 years and proposal. You will be seen as stable and safe if/when you choose to date.

Thats when the interesting part will happen. And you will both choose to either reconcile or never speak again.

So give it time and don't do anything brash. Also, don't listen to the internet either, myself included. Our opinions don't take into consideration your experiences with her. We will either be too positive or too negative. Seek therapy instead. Good luck brother.
 

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She had already checked out. Get in the gym and cut off contact
This. Women don’t break up to be single. She found someone else and was just plotting her escape.


i’m sure there will be brehs in here writing paragraphs but these 2 sentences I quoted are all you need.
 
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Good.

Now you can continue on w/ your life. She was already gone when the rough patch started. She’s was just holding you up.

She’s gone. She’s getting the shiit fukked outta her, probably better than you ever did. She’s probably flourishing and doing her big one w/ probably a better niigga than you all around. Accept it and get over it. You still got stuff to do. You here sad, while she glad. You gon sit here and keep moping or move on to the next?

Just like you found her, fell for, and got accustomed to her, you can do it w/ someone else…actually nah….fuçk that. Going forward, just enjoy the thrill and don’t let ya nose get wide open. She doesn’t belong to you nor do you her. In fact no one belongs to anyone so be free my niigga.
 

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A wino told me when a woman cuts you out like that she been mentally checked out.

Prolly consistently annoying her via co-habitation and it's issues in itself.

Women cut men off for a lot of shyt, I had a homeboy who fiancée broke the engagement off because he was too sweet to her and loved her dearly. She said he was smothering her.

Some men and women out here ain't meant to be in a relationship with no one and shouldn't either. They have issues deep within themselves.
 

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She found better dikk :manny:

yup….. sadly @tuckgod strikes again…..

Just like he smashed that other coli breh poster that’s been quiet since that got exposed :sas2:

And after he’s done with her…. He finna send her to @The God Poster and she finna be ran through in them Diddy Streets

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