She Broke that Nikka Cam Newton down to Particles! Keep Her Away from Nick Cannon

[murksiderock]

She was mostly right but some of that was projection...

Being a good father isn't dependent on being in the same home as the child. Does that generally increase of the potential for rearing healthy, loving children? Sure, I'd agree that it increases the potential and it's the ideal scenario...

I'll also agree that at some point, having children in too many homes becomes too large of a cross to balance proportionally. He's got three different mothers of his kids, so this is really testing the limits here, but is probably doable if you have the means and live local to your children...

After that these conversations eschew reality, which is, some relationships break down, and that your ability to be a great father doesn't change from you not being in the home, though you will have to adapt your parenting to meet the reality of not being in the home...

If all it took was just being in the home or having your kid(s) by one woman, we wouldn't know so many of us who grew up with fathers in the home who beat us; couldnt financially provide for us because they couldnt keep a job; couldnt financially provide for us because they didnt have a skill to make more income; neglected us; molested or raped us; were drug or alcohol addicts; had no extra kids but were womanizers; beat our mothers; not attending our events or clubs or sports activities; etc. Anyone black who didn't grow up with a Carlton Banks background knows black families where dad was in the home and experienced these woes...

On top of that, those of you who love "traditional men", which are alot of us black people, the traditional bar is that the man is the breadwinner which in the real world, where we know only 6% of Black men make $100k income-plus---->in the real world a traditional man being the breadwinner means he's working long hours and long weeks and he'd need to work extra hard to make time for his kids anyway. Which, many of them just want rest after working so hard to be able to provide for their kids...

And before nikkas in here project on me, I have 3 kids with two women and want no more.............maybe one more once im with the woman I'm with the rest of my life. But I'm very, very comfortable with my 3 daughters, not seeking more, not looking to repopulate the city...

I'd say Dr Bryant was 80% correct but she and too many other people stray this convo away from real life...

As a father your goal of being with one woman can change based on circumstance but you should understand how to remain a great dad regardless of if that relationship ends or not...

 

[Coco Loco]

His current girl is basically his maid, comic relief, sex toy and nanny. I peeped his stream and you can tell her self worth is tied to being with him. nikka don't even microwave his own food or nothing.

Oh I know







She has to be embarrassed


Plus she talked so much trash about baby mamas before falling for the same exact bs because "a rich n****a put that pressure on her"





She's a clown. No matter how much money he has if she truly didn't want to be a BM she would've put a locked down defender on her womb. She's stupid as fukk and probably still catering to a man who won't marry her


The only thing I commend Cam for is claiming the two kids his first and second BM had before him. He has 6 biological kids but says he has 8. That's all I'll give him


Can't wait to see who BM number 4 will be. He was campaigning for Dr. Bryant but she saw the play before he could run it. LOL

 

[murksiderock]

He also should move all


this is the only real solution to having children with multiple women

The post you quoted strays from realism...

"Get a compound with separate residences and move everyone in". Only 6% of us earn $100k with net worth well below other groups. Who is affording the compound and how many of these women want to live as part of the compound?

I'll tell you a thing I did yesterday:

My kids' mothers don't know each other. They live an hour apart from one another, only met each other once, which was my middle daughter's 3rd birthday party in 2021. And it wasn't a contentious meeting at all, they were conversational and polite to each other...

I've attempted to, in various ways, encourage a relationship between the two for years, because ultimately I feel like it benefits my daughters, for their mothers to have a working relationship, and in turn I feel like that benefits me...

I've been shytted on by both of them repeatedly for even suggesting this ...

Yesterday, for just the second time ever, I got both these women in the same house at the same time for about 20 minutes, and dipped away when they began talking to each other, which they talked to one another for at least 5 minutes, maybe a little more...

This is one of the biggest achievements I've done, and I'll continue to foster this engagement between them because it strengthens my daughters' relationships between each other. And secondarily, it will positively help my relationship with both women...

It takes work to maintain a great relationship if you're with one woman who is the sole mother of your kids. We know this is true if you've lived life, we know this is true because we know how prevalent divorce and broken relationships are. So it takes some adaptation to bridge these gaps with kids in different homes but I've known too many people, your ability to be a good father isn't hurt by not being in the home...

A man being a good father is solely dependent on how much that man prioritizes being a good father...

 

[BaggerofTea]

The post you quoted strays from realism...

"Get a compound with separate residences and move everyone in". Only 6% of us earn $100k with net worth well below other groups. Who is affording the compound and how many of these women want to live as part of the compound?

I'll tell you a thing I did yesterday:

My kids' mothers don't know each other. They live an hour apart from one another, only met each other once, which was my middle daughter's 3rd birthday party in 2021. And it wasn't a contentious meeting at all, they were conversational and polite to each other...

I've attempted to, in various ways, encourage a relationship between the two for years, because ultimately I feel like it benefits my daughters, for their mothers to have a working relationship, and in turn I feel like that benefits me...

I've been shytted on by both of them repeatedly for even suggesting this ...

Yesterday, for just the second time ever, I got both these women in the same house at the same time for about 20 minutes, and dipped away when they began talking to each other, which they talked to one another for at least 5 minutes, maybe a little more...

This is one of the biggest achievements I've done, and I'll continue to foster this engagement between them because it strengthens my daughters' relationships between each other. And secondarily, it will positively help my relationship with both women...

It takes work to maintain a great relationship if you're with one woman who is the sole mother of your kids. We know this is true if you've lived life, we know this is true because we know how prevalent divorce and broken relationships are. So it takes some adaptation to bridge these gaps with kids in different homes but I've known too many people, your ability to be a good father isn't hurt by not being in the home...

A man being a good father is solely dependent on how much that man prioritizes being a good father...

fair enough, rank and file joes have it far harder.


But Cam had one woman for his early adult life as a millionaire.


He could have planned out the situation better.

If you have millions of dollars and your children are scattered, thats a problem.

 

[OperationNumbNutts]

She was mostly right but some of that was projection...

Being a good father isn't dependent on being in the same home as the child. Does that generally increase of the potential for rearing healthy, loving children? Sure, I'd agree that it increases the potential and it's the ideal scenario...

I'll also agree that at some point, having children in too many homes becomes too large of a cross to balance proportionally. He's got three different mothers of his kids, so this is really testing the limits here, but is probably doable if you have the means and live local to your children...

After that these conversations eschew reality, which is, some relationships break down, and that your ability to be a great father doesn't change from you not being in the home, though you will have to adapt your parenting to meet the reality of not being in the home...

If all it took was just being in the home or having your kid(s) by one woman, we wouldn't know so many of us who grew up with fathers in the home who beat us; couldnt financially provide for us because they couldnt keep a job; couldnt financially provide for us because they didnt have a skill to make more income; neglected us; molested or raped us; were drug or alcohol addicts; had no extra kids but were womanizers; beat our mothers; not attending our events or clubs or sports activities; etc. Anyone black who didn't grow up with a Carlton Banks background knows black families where dad was in the home and experienced these woes...

On top of that, those of you who love "traditional men", which are alot of us black people, the traditional bar is that the man is the breadwinner which in the real world, where we know only 6% of Black men make $100k income-plus---->in the real world a traditional man being the breadwinner means he's working long hours and long weeks and he'd need to work extra hard to make time for his kids anyway. Which, many of them just want rest after working so hard to be able to provide for their kids...

And before nikkas in here project on me, I have 3 kids with two women and want no more.............maybe one more once im with the woman I'm with the rest of my life. But I'm very, very comfortable with my 3 daughters, not seeking more, not looking to repopulate the city...

I'd say Dr Bryant was 80% correct but she and too many other people stray this convo away from real life...

As a father your goal of being with one woman can change based on circumstance but you should understand how to remain a great dad regardless of if that relationship ends or not...

No disrespect, but just like Cam you are looking at it from one angle. Yes things can happen where there are multiple children mothers. However, there is a difference when some intentionally plays that game and thinks it cool.

 

[FTBS]

The concept of "I will procreate with you but I wont marry/commit to you" has always been confusing to me. Slip ups is a different thing, as that could happen to anybody. But even that can get to a point of you just being reckless and Irresponsible. You may be with a person and have a kid and yall fall out. Unfortunate but understandable. But I cant wrap my mind around choosing to connect yourself and family forever with somebody you dont want to be with.

nikkas like Cam and Nick treat kids like ornaments...like look what I can do. nikka tried to put God in it you like skeeting in raw box, getting your ornament, tossing moms some Ms, and moving to the next. Nothing to do with God.

The thing is those ornaments are people. Those people have minds and feelings. Its hard to truly connect and bond with all those kids spread all over.

Its 2024, we got electric cars, wifi, virtual everything and people still clinging to this concept that dads just nut and throw money. Fatherhood is about way more than that. You can tell nobody has ever called Cam on his shyt, especially a woman. When you tall, handsome, athletic, rich, and famous you can pretty much do what you want. That doesnt do anything for those kids though.

 

[Jaguar93]

Broke his shyt down to the science. I want to see more of her.

 

[Da King]

Have them nikkas on suicide watch

Destroyed him

 

[AQz]

She had me sitting there in silence listening and it didn’t even have nothing to do with me lol

 

[ReturnOfJudah]

she didnt really break anything down

men have never been in the house like that till recently...
the most important thing children need from their father is a good stable upbringing (money), knowing that father loves them, knowing they can reach him whenever and that father to be a good example for them

I cant say Cam is all of that...
but if that Dr. believed everything she said then she should also believe divorce getting a divorce should be more difficult than it already is

dumbest shyt i've read today. Men ain't been in the house... Two parent homes is a recent trend

Cam should never be hosting any show dealing with serious topics because this goofy isn’t too bright

nikka already got 8 kids by 3 different women

That's why these podcasts are a joke and cringy

 

[⠀X ⠀]

He set himself up for that

 

[Art Barr]

From one poverty maker to another.

Regardless of resources.
Poverty is factually created by having children out of wedlock.


ART BARR

 

[Art Barr]

Yes sir… you see how the women escaped accountability in this scenario….

nikkas trying to make it all be Cam’s fault….

It is just what it is as a man.

As a man you are responsible.
It just is what it is.

Protect your seed. Wear a condom everytime.

If not.

You are, and will be the blamed.
As the cause for the issues present. Regardless of how many complicit parties there are.
It is just what being an American man is. When it comes to child birth. As far as social practicality.


Art Barr

 

[FTBS]

Yes sir… you see how the women escaped accountability in this scenario….

nikkas trying to make it all be Cam’s fault….

The woman are indeed culpable...but they aint runnin shyt. This is Cam's show. They following Cam's program. nikkas (Cam included) talk all this alpha shyt. So we cant turn around and be egalitarian when its time to be accountable.

 

[xXOGLEGENDXx]

It's crazy how the same ppl that hate on single moms are the ones who advocate to create single moms.

That's thecoli.com for you.
Those brehs would jump on any train that puts women in a negative light.

If Cam was a woman talking about how she wants to keep creating kids with men she isn't marrying, they would be in this thread with pitchforks calling her Medusa.

But since it's a man doing it, suddenly they are now saying,
"Well, men don't need to be in the home anyway."
"He has money, that's all kids need."
"Bu bu but what about the women signing up for it?"


It's honestly hilarious and sad at the same time.