it's common sense that athletes have superstar wives and girlfriends who are okay with this arrangement...I mean it shows it on the show ballers why is Sharpe acting like its a huge secret..its just common sense that a woman would be aware that a famous or semi-famous millionare athletes will have tons of options and if they want to be the main they will have to accept what they do or find someone else and willingly share their men in exchange for the lifestyle that comes along with being married to a multi-millionare athlete