It's nikkas like this that get cheated on cause they don't understand that sex post to be mutual. If you don't care about pleasin her why don't you just jerk off?
Edit: so pleasin each other is a Western concept?
In my experience, the dude who thinks that he is "putting it down" is the one who is always getting cheated on, and he is the one who wants to kill somebody after he is cheated on...
If you understand that the woman is only there to provide you with sex, then the only reason to be hurt when a woman cheats on you is because she exposed you to health risks such as sexually transmitted infections...
I don't emotional attach myself to any woman...I am incapable of that kind of emotional dependency...My attitude in every relationship is "I am sharing that girl, and I hope she is smart enough to keep herself safe, and not expose me to STI"...
That's what will hurt me about the cheating, being exposed to disease, not some emotional attachment issues...
I was never close to either of my parents growing up...I just didn't emotionally need them growing, and I had an AWESOME childhood...I am just naturally not an emotional person...
This where some of my perspectives come from...I think emotions are useless and make us inefficient as a species...Without emotions, there will be no hunger in the human world, no wars...Just one unit working towards one goal...Human dominance of the universe...
That's another discussion...