Apollonia
Wholesome..
"Mahnday..Choosday Satday..Sunday"
I feel Mike pain even though we don't get to see him mourn.
Seriously You got to start moving like Batman in these marriages.
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Apollonia
Wholesome..
"Mahnday..Choosday Satday..Sunday"
I feel Mike pain even though we don't get to see him mourn.
Vandelay
Life is absurd. Lean into it.
Always move like it can end. Sucks, but that's a mindset you have to have if you want to get married. People change, they may not be the same person when you got with them. And when people change, you might not be changing together, so you just have to be prepared for that.
I'm pretty sure him and catwoman get married in the comics. But the inevitable happens .
Pull Up the Roots
Veteran
You're setting yourself up for failure by going into a marriage believing it will eventually end. If you're that insecure and mistrustful, you're better off staying single.
Take some advice from a man who has been married 20 years and still going strong. If you have to do all of this you might as well not get married at all.
Seriously. If you think even for one second that your lady is not 100% invested in whatever legacy you two are supposed to be building abandon ship.
You guys don't realize that you are supposed to be solid, know exactly what you want, and have instructions (or guidelines) for your lady to build off of. Whether women admit this or not, they want and expect this from the man they are interested in.
On the real though, a lot of guys have this issue because they are just as indecisive as a female. Their woman doesn't know what to expect because her "man" doesn't know what he wants and is unable to make solid decisions and see them through. Regardless of how long they've been together, he is afraid to commit to her, so she's looking out for herself. Instead of setting the tone early and making it clear that he intends to build a legacy with his future wife, he has a g/f that he is probably cheating on, lol. Some of you got a bm that you've impregnated and will have raising your child but not sure you want to make her your wife, lol.
Of course the woman you deal with will eventually make plans to exit. As a man you are supposed to know what you want, have plans and strategy, and also at least have a blueprint for her to build off of. Y'all don't have any instructions to give your ladies, that's why they go off trying to figure shyt out on their own. I would be a damn fool if I didn't give me wife instructions and just left her to figure everything out.
You have to set the tone from the beginning so the weaklings can make their exit. The goofy hoes will be like damn, this nikka is too serious for me. Women that want a solid man who is capable of providing leadership will fall in line.
Seriously. If you think even for one second that your lady is not 100% invested in whatever legacy you two are supposed to be building abandon ship.
You guys don't realize that you are supposed to be solid, know exactly what you want, and have instructions (or guidelines) for your lady to build off of. Whether women admit this or not, they want and expect this from the man they are interested in.
On the real though, a lot of guys have this issue because they are just as indecisive as a female. Their woman doesn't know what to expect because her "man" doesn't know what he wants and is unable to make solid decisions and see them through. Regardless of how long they've been together, he is afraid to commit to her, so she's looking out for herself. Instead of setting the tone early and making it clear that he intends to build a legacy with his future wife, he has a g/f that he is probably cheating on, lol. Some of you got a bm that you've impregnated and will have raising your child but not sure you want to make her your wife, lol.
Of course the woman you deal with will eventually make plans to exit. As a man you are supposed to know what you want, have plans and strategy, and also at least have a blueprint for her to build off of. Y'all don't have any instructions to give your ladies, that's why they go off trying to figure shyt out on their own. I would be a damn fool if I didn't give me wife instructions and just left her to figure everything out.
You have to set the tone from the beginning so the weaklings can make their exit. The goofy hoes will be like damn, this nikka is too serious for me. Women that want a solid man who is capable of providing leadership will fall in line.
Toe Jay Simpson
Searchin’
Y’all nikkas gonna be 70 years old sitting somewhere in a home looking like
“Sorry dad, Craig said you can’t stay with us. He wants us to focus on enjoying our marriage”
“Sorry dad, Craig said you can’t stay with us. He wants us to focus on enjoying our marriage”
Diondon
Thanks to the lawyers uh, I marbled the foyer
Don't let your wife walk all over you 
This should have been applied since the talking stage
This should have been applied since the talking stage
Offtopic, but ive tried this. As an american citizen , foreign banks will get sanctioned by the US govt if they dont report your funds to the IRS. Its such a hassle that many foreign financial institutions wont even open accounts for americans, because of the cost of compliance. Those euro investment banks are some of the few exceptions, but they only do it for highnet worth individuals ($10mil+) or for folks with stable jobs in that foreign country. They wont do a thing for Joe Shmoe loving in cleveland , Oh.
Youd need a second passport to dodge the feds as an American.
You are not running away from divorce court or the IRS.
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Not only did u have to make this fictitious hypothetical son abandoning pops gay and a buck, but u just had to have "craig" wearing the damn pants in the marriage to bootY’all nikkas gonna be 70 years old sitting somewhere in a home looking like
“Sorry dad, Craig said you can’t stay with us. He wants us to focus on enjoying our marriage”
Ricky Fontaine
Superstar
I thought it was his daughterNot only did u have to make this fictitious hypothetical son abandoning pops gay and a buck, but u just had to have "craig" wearing the damn pants in the marriage to boot
Now that u mention it i see no evidence either way for anything certain except craig wearing the pants. Either way, that is not how i envision kicking off my golden years.I thought it was his daughter
I’m sure plenty of men getting raped in divorce court had this same mentality.
Your wife right after divorce proceedings: "I didnt feel like i was being heard. He was too controlling"Don't let your wife walk all over you
This should have been applied since the talking stage
But , do i get to keep the house?
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