Serious question: Is there really any benefits in marriage for a MAN?

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Outside of tax deductions and benefits, what is exactly is the point of marriage? What would make a legally bounded contract of your relationship any different than what it is now? Marriage is essentially an illusion of security through wedding bands, rings, and vows. None of them actually mean anything because they aren't capable of upholding a bond. They are items and words and nothing more. Do people actually believe that a circular piece of metal will prevent a husband or wife from cheating? There really isn't a need to enter into a contractual agreement because you care for your partner. You can care for someone without legally binding yourself to them and reciting words to them over loud organ chords that won't be taken seriously.
 

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Let's see...

1. You're in sexual sin if y'all having sex without the covenant of marriage...
:francis:
2. Depending on where you live if y'all stay together long enough she can still get you with common law marriage:yeshrug:

3. Did I mention sexual sin...:manny:

4. You're adding to the problem of black folks shacking up which often leads to more out of wedlock births and fatherless homes

5. Oh, I forgot to mention SEXUAL SIN...:sas2:

6. If you eventually do have kids your children will think to themselves well dayum momma was good enough to suck and fuhhh, cook and clean, but she must not have been good enough for dad to make an HONEST and HONORABLE woman out of her...

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Outside of tax deductions and benefits, what is exactly is the point of marriage? What would make a legally bounded contract of your relationship any different than what it is now? Marriage is essentially an illusion of security through wedding bands, rings, and vows. None of them actually mean anything because they aren't capable of upholding a bond. They are items and words and nothing more. Do people actually believe that a circular piece of metal will prevent a husband or wife from cheating? There really isn't a need to enter into a contractual agreement because you care for your partner. You can care for someone without legally binding yourself to them and reciting words to them over loud organ chords that won't be taken seriously.


You obviously have no idea what the genesis of marriage is and the moral implications behind it. If you're going to post, post with knowledge and not hood nykka psycho pseudo wanna be knowledge...PLEASE
 

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Everyone ignoring what he said about power shifting to the woman massively and that it can corrupts
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Nobody has a counter to that not even the simps or females

If you pick the right woman it doesn't.

I'm not trying to be that nykka, BUT DAMN DO ALL OF YA'LL on here have no good mamas who CAN'T TEACH YA'LL what type of woman to look for and pursue.

Jeezzzuss Christ!!!

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Talk about marriage as if it is a 401k plan brehz... :mjlol:

Marriage is what you make it man. How many times do people have to say that shyt on here?:stopitslime:

If you aren't shyt, your marriage isn't going to be shyt either. Same goes for you. If you aren't shyt

then your woman probably wont be either... :francis:

Small rule of thumb, every day since she was 13, your woman was offered dikk. She is with you

because that is as good as it will get for her. A little word we like to use called settling. So, if she

is no good, and she settled, then tell me exactly what does that make you?:gucci:

Get good women, have great marriages.:hubie:

Damn :wow:
 

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If you pick the right woman it doesn't.

I'm not trying to be that nykka, BUT DAMN DO ALL OF YA'LL on here have no good mamas who CAN'T TEACH YA'LL what type of woman to look for and pursue.

Jeezzzuss Christ!!!

:snoop:

U can't be this slow. Why would I agree to a relationship that gives most of the power to women ?? Even if u found the "right one" why the hell do u think giving her that much power is a good idea. Picking the right one is an issue when marriage is fair. Your purposely ignoring the unjust inequalities
 

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U can't be this slow. Why would I agree to a relationship that gives most of the power to women ?? Even if u found the "right one" why the hell do u think giving her that much power is a good idea. Picking the right one is an issue when marriage is fair. Your purposely ignoring the unjust inequalities


Please lay out these so call Power moves women receive by default after marriage.

I'm married by the way.

So if you're not married yourself you really have no experience and should not be replying in this thread...:manny:

That's the problem with you young new nykkas who probably come from fatherless homes. You have no one to teach you anything. I see why our black culture is losing.

If you about your business a woman won't even think twice about trying to pull foolishness because she knows you are about your business.

It's just like dating game so girls will do freaky stuff with nykkas that they won't do with another nykka.

If you about your business and not a soft azz nykka and find the right woman you won't be crying and making excuses about what power you giving to the woman.

A lot of nykkas in here exposing they Hemotional flaws and it's pathetic.

Bu bu bu she gone take everything and get all the power....sniff sniff sniff:to:


Go put in a Too Short album and find your manhood again scary azz nykka...
 
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