Serious question: is it a red flag if a chick is too big a fan of an male r&b star?

[Lexx Diamond]

Fanaticism alone is a red flag. Be careful out there.

 

[Ezekiel 25:17]

Put it like this OP:

If Rihanna was butt ass nekkid asking you to fuk and you were in a relationship, would you still do it?

Thats how alot of women feel about Chris Brown or their favorite celebrity.


But you need to understand that 99.99% of women will never be around their favorite celebrity in a way that would lead to fuking and that celebrities wouldnt fuk 95% of women if they were naked in his bedroom. It's the same type of fantasy as these Coli Brehs have when they post a woman saying Slip N Slide Submission, African Ashwaganda An@l, Inappropriate Interludes in Italy, and all that shxt.

No. Y'all only rate Rihanna very high simply because she's famous.

 

[BmoreGorilla]

I wouldn’t trip off that. You might miss out on a good woman cuz she has a crush on Chris Brown?


Now if other red flag present themselves movie with caution

 

[Creepn]

Yes, red flag. She'll end up naming your son after him. Keep it moving and spare yourself future disrespect.

 

[Mass]

Red flag. Celebrity worship culture is garbage and fukk her. Ain't no "hall" passes. If Rihanna or Beyonce come to town, angling to get into vip to sniff a chance at a conversation would be the literal opposite of manhood.

 

[Commish]

OP..

Can't tell you not to deal with this woman, but have some rules & guidelines that you stand on..

As long as a woman treat you with respect and do right by you, then a woman having a celebrity crush shouldn't matter.

Any woman you take serious need to know & understand your boundaries. If a woman don't know nor understand your boundaries, then you don't take that woman serious.

 

[jadillac]

Is she spending that $1,000 or whatever for his backstage meet and photo?

 

[Wiseborn]

Recently met a broad about 3 weeks ago, she is bad and has some great qualities….

Yesterday she tells me she is a REALLY big Chris Brown fan…. Okay cool


She takes it a step further and says that she thinks he is one of the most talented musicians of the last 20 years… okay cool

She then takes it a another step further and says EVERY time he comes in town, she goes to his concerts, has went outta town to see him once and has even been in the VIP, but never personally met him


She says she wants to continue going to his shows but states if she met him, she would NOT be down with him grabbing her ass or trying to smash


But after a few min it was CLEAR that he is her celebrity crush, and states her man would have to be cool with her going to his shows… she then asked if I have a celebrity crush and if I believe in celebrity “hall passes”



I saw this as a red flag, and immediately began to check outta the convo to a certain extent…

Fellas am I being to sensitive/critical or is this a legit reg flag and should I automatically dismiss any thought of this broad being potential wifey in the future??? And should I bush her? Or just smash her and keep it moving?

Sometimes I can be hard on a hoe, but for one of the first times, I’m not sure if my concern is legit or not.

Tell me if I’m trippin or not?

number one she’s terrible with her own money that’s a red flag there. It’s one thing to pay a grip to see a show there’s quite another to spend thousands getting there and spending hundreds on the tickets.

Finally with the hall pass question she’s screaming that she wants to fukk breezy.

Usher comes around your girl and who knows what will happen but for a chick to tell you that upfront???

 

[All Knowledge]

Not sure, but there are women out there who arent' caught up in surface level entertainer's, my chick don't know shyt about nothing, absolutely shyt. It's so refreshing

 

[24 Hr. Finesse]

If that's the case then every woman is a red flag lol.

fr tho in general women are already natural groupies. a chick at this level of "fandom" behind any famous dude is more than a red flag.
hit it if you want, bush her and tell her exactly why

 

[ucanthandlethetruth]

Yea of course.. I know. I been single for 2 years now… so I know how to smash n dash…

but we were vibing on a whole nother level these past few weeks and I actually saw some potential in her up until this very convo yesterday

If you have to ask if it's a red flag you already know the answer.

 

[Jaguar93]

 

[Mac Ten]

Toss her back to the streets…


Ol Girl looks like the type to suck someone to get backstage.

It’s a chance that she would let CB smash

 

[null]

how much do you and breezy have in common OP.

your answer is right there

 

[kevin arnold]

Imagine having your girlfriend go to a Chris brown concert, sucking off chris brown then going back home and kissing you in the mouth brehs