Serious question: is it a red flag if a chick is too big a fan of an male r&b star?

[Henny and_ HotWings]

Recently met a broad about 3 weeks ago, she is bad and has some great qualities….

Yesterday she tells me she is a REALLY big Chris Brown fan…. Okay cool


She takes it a step further and says that she thinks he is one of the most talented musicians of the last 20 years… okay cool

She then takes it a another step further and says EVERY time he comes in town, she goes to his concerts, has went outta town to see him once and has even been in the VIP, but never personally met him


She says she wants to continue going to his shows but states if she met him, she would NOT be down with him grabbing her ass or trying to smash


But after a few min it was CLEAR that he is her celebrity crush, and states her man would have to be cool with her going to his shows… she then asked if I have a celebrity crush and if I believe in celebrity “hall passes”



I saw this as a red flag, and immediately began to check outta the convo to a certain extent…

Fellas am I being to sensitive/critical or is this a legit reg flag and should I automatically dismiss any thought of this broad being potential wifey in the future??? And should I bush her? Or just smash her and keep it moving?

Sometimes I can be hard on a hoe, but for one of the first times, I’m not sure if my concern is legit or not.

Tell me if I’m trippin or not?

 

[Taadow]

Tell me what her top 10 favorite Chris Brown cuts are, and that will help me answer.

 

[Controversy]

You don't have to wife every chick you're interested in

Smash & KIM

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

Tell me what her top 10 favorite Chris Brown cuts are, and that will help me answer.

Ah, I don’t know her exact favorite songs but she said his whole discography is incredible and she could listen to him for days straight. She admitted he was handsome as well but that that has no baring on why she is a fan

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

You don't have to wife every chick you're interested in

Smash & KIM

Yea of course.. I know. I been single for 2 years now… so I know how to smash n dash…

but we were vibing on a whole nother level these past few weeks and I actually saw some potential in her up until this very convo yesterday

 

[Belize King]

You’re not tripping. How old is this bird? Super fans will always be down to smash. She’s dropping money every time dude comes to town…

Don’t play yourself. Chris can fukk and get sucked off if he chooses her.

Smash, keep her around, don’t catch feelings.

Imagine your girl liking a dusty, coke head whose o d
stuff can probably fall off at anytime.

NO disrespect to Chris. Good music and work ethic

 

[Elim Garak]

If that's the case then every woman is a red flag lol.

 

[RamsayBolton]

she takes it a step further than just simply being a fan

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

she takes it a step further than just simply being a fan

That’s what I was thinking

 

[Treblemaka]

Put it like this OP:

If Rihanna was butt ass nekkid asking you to fuk and you were in a relationship, would you still do it?

Thats how alot of women feel about Chris Brown or their favorite celebrity.


But you need to understand that 99.99% of women will never be around their favorite celebrity in a way that would lead to fuking and that celebrities wouldnt fuk 95% of women if they were naked in his bedroom. It's the same type of fantasy as these Coli Brehs have when they post a woman saying Slip N Slide Submission, African Ashwaganda An@l, Inappropriate Interludes in Italy, and all that shxt.

 

[Henny and_ HotWings]

If that's the case then every woman is a red flag lol.

Well there are a ton of walking red flags out there….that’s partially why you see so many bad bytches that’s single IMO

 

[Elim Garak]

Well there are a ton of walking red flags out there….that’s partially why you see so many bad bytches that’s single IMO

Every woman I've know if you get to know her well enough you find out it's a celebrity she crushes on like this in my experience. Honestly I think all men and women have one of these too no matter what their age is.

 

[Fill Collins]

Could be worse, my boy told me he caught his girl pleasuring herself to Earthquake

 

[MaxBundles]

Of course GMB coli gonna tell you she's the devil so smash and stay away but this is real life.
If you really like her, she has great qualities and all that, what the fukk is the problem?
The odds of her meeting Chris in real life is slim to none. Why fukk up something good because of the .05% chance she'll fukk CB?
Don't listen to these losers

 

[Brock Landers]

Cant have her out there wildin, yall hugged up sitting on the couch watching Bris dancing and she there like