Serious Question How do certain black men not get angry? How do u control your anger as a black man?

[Micky Mikey]

I need help. I'm a very very very angry man. My anger is controlled for now but sometimes im afraid im going boil over eventually.

Man I hate everything, everything about this world...I hate it all....and wish sometimes for it to be destroyed.

I hate a special hate for humanity. A very special hate for it

How do u as a black man control your anger everyday?

Meditating and accepting what is. We were born in this era and current point in human history for a reason. You are frustrated about the current state of blacks and you are enraged that others arent equally enraged with you. I have been there.

You have to accept that things have to be this way. For the conditions of blacks to remain as they are now the majority of our people would have to be slightly apathetic. Things must be this because they are this way.

Consider yourself a pioneer. A black man who is ahead of his time. Collective change happens over time and the changes you want to see happen may not happen in your life time. Accept it for what it is and learn to channel that energy into personal self development and positivity. Also you must learn the valuable lesson that your own personal happieness should never EVER be grounded in objective reality. GIVE UP trying to change objective reality to fit around your happiness. Instead learn to be happy irregardless of objective reality.

The bolded is what separates wise men,sages, and mystics from the unenlightened masses.

 

[fdsfa]

alot of people have life wayyyyy more harder than you and youre crying about being black and angry?? be fukking grateful for the shyt you can do, check your privilege cause alot of people out here just want to live, and you on the fukking internet crying man fukk this shyt

got blind people that been blind their whole life, people born with half a heart, people that cant even use their legs and all they would like to do is take walk, you should be ashamed of yourself if youre still crying smh

 

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[Derekjackson2]

Be in control at all times. Deal with people on your terms. Find a profession you enjoy. Do what you enjoy. Black men are always trying to please & fit in with society. Other races stay in control & are not as angry.

 

[Yinny]

I'm not a black man, but find some stimulating hobbies and people

more importantly, stay away from negative people who have nothing better to do but talk about other people. You seem easily triggered and the less you surround yourself with negativity the better. Stop focusing on others' situations and do what you love.

 

[ImGucci]

By getting some p*ssy, it helps a lot.

 

[Uncle Kingpin]

Usually i dont take the bait on the bi weekly dr x in his emotions thread...but this is something I can relate to. I walk around with a simmering rage just beneath the surface. I think its something most black people who are aware of their condition as a people have. Im not going to tell you any bs about go work out or meditate. Theres only one cure I know for anger.

Revenge. Getting even. Anger is second to fear as the most motivating emotion. Use your anger as the fuel to motivate your revenge.

 

[CapitalforCapital]

I BE HIGH.

 

[King Jae]

Anger is unfulfilled passion bruh...wrote an old blog post about it....problem is you know what you want to do with your life and what your purpose is... you just don't know how to go about getting it....failure is par for the course.. you should have stayed in NY bruh...you gave up too soon...don't post much here but I see everything...If you would have stayed it have forced you to figure the shyt out... you are talented...you just need work on your resiliency....fukk I been blogging and doing podcasts for bout 5 years....just now starting to make waves.... every time I feel like I don't have shyt in the tank I take a break and just say fukk it...then after awhile you get the itch again...you need to take the lumps and get out your town...you left to conquer the world just to give up at the first sign of trouble....fun fact: most first generation millionaires slept in their car and was homeless at some point...your unfulfilled living there and the fact that you had to move back is eating at you deep down and manifests as anger...

 

[Marlostanfield.]

Living a detached life is the only way to serenity.

Detachment allows you to see reality and you don't give power to things outside of you. If you're attached to life it will control you and bring you much pain.

 

[Scott Larock]

Meditating and accepting what is. We were born in this era and current point in human history for a reason. You are frustrated about state of blacks and you are enraged that others arent enraged with you. You have to accept that things have to be this way. For the conditions of blacks to remain as they are now the majority of our people would have to be slightly apathetic. Consider yourself a pioneer. A black man who is ahead of his time. Collective change happens over time and the changes you want to see happen may not happen in your life time. Accept it for what it is and learn to channel the energy into personal self development and positivity.

Not really, he's frustrated at himself which leads to him turning me=we.

I realize the dudes who are more content and successful honestly aint' with the we shyt, they just do them and keep it moving, the ones down on their lucks seems to be the ones throwing around the we word, sad but true.

What would happen if dude fukked beyonce on a yatch off the coast tomorrow chilling with jay in the maybach? would the consciousness still be there?

Anger is unfulfilled passion bruh...wrote an old blog post about it....problem is you know what you want to do with your life and what your purpose is... you just don't know how to go about getting it....failure is par for the course.. you should have stayed in NY bruh...you gave up too soon...don't post much here but I see everything...If you would have stayed it have forced you to figure the shyt out... you are talented...you just need work on your resiliency....fukk I been blogging and doing podcasts for bout 5 years....just now starting to make waves.... every time I feel like I don't have shyt in the tank I take a break and just say fukk it...then after awhile you get the itch again...you need to take the lumps and get out your town...you left to conquer the world just to give up at the first sign of trouble....fun fact: most first generation millionaires slept in their car and was homeless at some point...your unfulfilled living there and the fact that you had to move back is eating at you deep down and manifests as anger...

this is real shyt, you hate living in a area so much you can't see anything past the negative. You gotta travel go to another state and live. start from scratch, if the bytch is white take her and start from there, learn to smile and be happy. I get shytted on everyday and I'm patiently waiting for my shyt to come.

 

[Black Magisterialness]

I need help. I'm a very very very angry man. My anger is controlled for now but sometimes im afraid im going boil over eventually.

Man I hate everything, everything about this world...I hate it all....and wish sometimes for it to be destroyed.

I hate a special hate for humanity. A very special hate for it

How do u as a black man control your anger everyday?

Cool heads prevail. Self-love, self-actualization...


Think about this. How many things in life are TRULY worth fighting/dying/getting angry over?
A woman? Nah, plenty of those...plenty of potential to even love a few of them.
Money? Can be replaced, but if your happiness was based upon it you were doomed for failure to begin with.
Respect? You don't need respect from every person on Earth beyond your basic human dignity.
Racism? Ignorance cannot anger me, its a by product of the fearful and weak-willed. I fight against it but its not with hate in my heart.

Anger is a natural emotion...RAGE, however, is totally within your control. To be angry is human, to be wrathful is a path to self destruction.

 

[Black Cobain]

I make fun of cacs, c00ns, wenches and bucks on thecoli

 

[DrX]

Cool heads prevail. Self-love, self-actualization...


Think about this. How many things in life are TRULY worth fighting/dying/getting angry over?
A woman? Nah, plenty of those...plenty of potential to even love a few of them.
Money? Can be replaced, but if your happiness was based upon it you were doomed for failure to begin with.
Respect? You don't need respect from every person on Earth beyond your basic human dignity.
Racism? Ignorance cannot anger me, its a by product of the fearful and weak-willed. I fight against it but its not with hate in my heart.

Anger is a natural emotion...RAGE, however, is totally within your control. To be angry is human, to be wrathful is a path to self destruction.

your a wise man thanks

 

[Strapped]

You are not going to change anything because we blacks will never get together,we do to much detructive stuff to our society like sell drugs ,pimp out our women & create broken families.