Seeing Your Jumpoff Get Married Un-appreciated

[skeetsinternal]

I done smutted out a few wives and had my DNA swimming up in nikkas girlfriends and chics nikkas now wifing ...this is life

 

[brickfare]

it's not yours, it's just your turn, breh

 

[Jesus]

it's not yours, it's just your turn, breh

 

[TooLazyToMakeUp1]

it's not yours, it's just your turn, breh

Oooh shyt!

 

[Spoonz]

Everyon'e wife was someone's jumpoff....I find it funny how every dude thinks that his girlfriend/wife was the exception...and then feels that burning sensation in his chest when one day his girl nonchalantly tells him about some of her past exploits on some "but I know you still love me anyway right" level.

Alot of dudes are dating/married to women who have more miles than they would assume. People in general tend to give their deciphering skills more credit than they are worth, and then get upset when reality smacks them in the face.

The harsh reality is, your chick probably has seen more action than you have whether dudes believe it or not. Somewhere right now, someone(s) is thinking the same thing as they look at you smiling with your chick and UOENO.

At the end of the day, the way she treats you and respects you is the real determinant of where you stand in the lineup of all the other men. A woman can sleep with anyone, but she only submits to a few. So, if she was just banging you, then you aint missin that much anyway. Just be happy you busted a few nuts.

Peace

you dudes are ridiculous, I'm all for wifing sluts and hoes but saying every chick's been a jumpoff is just stupid and a logical fallacy.
there are chicks who marry as virgins and all that bullshyt.

 

[Bender Rodriguez]

all my jumpoffs were either single and still single or married and still married...soooo not sure what the problem is

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

I've been seeing this happen more and more lately. It's not a healthy mindset to be jealous about it, especially if all you saw her as is a jumpoff. Don't get me wrong, I get it. I always reminisce briefly when I see a girl that I used to happily drill away at in college or in law school get wifed up and start out on her track to getting a suburban house, kids, and a picket fence. It just happens.

The healthy mindset that I've found works for me is to look at her as someone that I had a lot of fun getting to know. Someone that I had some awesome drunken fun times with and had some fun marathon sex with. Someone that you shared an experience with in college knowing that it wasn't going to pan out to anything majorly serious, but you still can leave each other behind with some positive memories and be respectful. Again, don't get me wrong, I know it's weird and it sucks because there's a part of you that wishes that you'd have her availability for that kind of fun forever and ever, but if you look at it less as a territoriality thing and more about some fun you both had together when you were just kids, it's easier to mentally embrace this kind of thing.

In short be happy for her, be happy for the guy, go outside, and make more memories.

you, sir, have a mature mindset....

the older you get the more you will see this happen....a lot of cats in here wont understand becuz either they are very young or immature....

 

[Hacksaw Jim Thuggin]

you dudes are ridiculous, I'm all for wifing sluts and hoes but saying every chick's been a jumpoff is just stupid and a logical fallacy.
there are chicks who marry as virgins and all that bullshyt.

bruh...most chicks have unwittingly been jump-offs...maybe she didnt know until her dude messed up and got busted....

almost every man has dealt with women he only saw on a sexual level or lead a woman on...just to hit...while the woman was thinking it was something else...

its not right...but it happens

 

[threattonature]

The worst is being invited to the wedding. There was one that cheated on her husband with me. The first time we fukked I was even telling her to stop that she don't want to do dude like that. After she tells me to shut up, threw me on the bed and straddled me I said fukk it and got in it. She's getting married in three months and sent me an invite. I might still go cause she got some sexy ass friends.

 

[BlvdBrawler]

The worst is being invited to the wedding. There was one that cheated on her husband with me. The first time we fukked I was even telling her to stop that she don't want to do dude like that. After she tells me to shut up, threw me on the bed and straddled me I said fukk it and got in it. She's getting married in three months and sent me an invite. I might still go cause she got some sexy ass friends.

 

[threattonature]

The husband has no clue at all of even who I was. She was doing a long distance relationship. It was sad cause I was in bed with her at times while she's shushing me to talk to him.

 

[InDePickWest]

nikkas still thinking and reminiscing about women they fukked them years ago meanwhile she got a husband and kid and dont even remember your name.



Hope none of my old nikkas remember me