Seeing Your Jumpoff Get Married Un-appreciated

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You log in to see your former smut married/engaged. You think about the dirty things you did to her. :whew:

You wonder what whorish things your girlfriend/ future wife did for other nikkas. :why:

You wonder what your mother/sister/daughter did/will do to nikkas. :sadcam:

The Circle of Life involving dikk....:manny:
 

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It's just best to not think about those things. I'd be more concerned about if she was planning on keeping in touch while both of you knowing what you did to each other.
 

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Its a tangled web indeed, everybody pouring salt into the game. Everybody eatin off each others plate and fukking it up the whole dining experience. nikkas only lookin out for self, its like eating at a restaurant where your being sold leftovers. You get your food and your fries are cold, the burger is half bitten then you try to take a sip of your Coke n all you hear is that slurping sound you get when your shyts almost empty, then you spit it back in the cup cuz you tatse some other nikkas backwash

Then when that bill come you still paying full price with a gratuity tip added for good measure
 
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You log in to see your former smut married/engaged. You think about the dirty things you did to her. :whew:

You wonder what whorish things your girlfriend/ future wife did for other nikkas. :why:

You wonder what your mother/sister/daughter did/will do to nikkas. :sadcam:

The Circle of Life involving dikk....:manny:
what whorish things did the jump off do? how did yall meet?
 

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:lupe: I've been seeing this happen more and more lately. It's not a healthy mindset to be jealous about it, especially if all you saw her as is a jumpoff. :whoa: Don't get me wrong, I get it. I always reminisce briefly when I see a girl that I used to happily drill away at in college or in law school get wifed up and start out on her track to getting a suburban house, kids, and a picket fence. :ahh: It just happens. :manny:

The healthy mindset that I've found works for me is to look at her as someone that I had a lot of fun getting to know. Someone that I had some awesome drunken fun times with and had some fun marathon sex with. Someone that you shared an experience with in college knowing that it wasn't going to pan out to anything majorly serious, but you still can leave each other behind with some positive memories and be respectful. :whoa: Again, don't get me wrong, I know it's weird and it sucks because there's a part of you that wishes that you'd have her availability for that kind of fun forever and ever, but if you look at it less as a territoriality thing and more about some fun you both had together when you were just kids, it's easier to mentally embrace this kind of thing.

In short be happy for her, be happy for the guy, go outside, and make more memories. :jawalrus:
 

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Everyon'e wife was someone's jumpoff....I find it funny how every dude thinks that his girlfriend/wife was the exception...and then feels that burning sensation in his chest when one day his girl nonchalantly tells him about some of her past exploits on some "but I know you still love me anyway right" level.

Alot of dudes are dating/married to women who have more miles than they would assume. People in general tend to give their deciphering skills more credit than they are worth, and then get upset when reality smacks them in the face.

The harsh reality is, your chick probably has seen more action than you have whether dudes believe it or not. Somewhere right now, someone(s) is thinking the same thing as they look at you smiling with your chick and UOENO.

At the end of the day, the way she treats you and respects you is the real determinant of where you stand in the lineup of all the other men. A woman can sleep with anyone, but she only submits to a few. So, if she was just banging you, then you aint missin that much anyway. Just be happy you busted a few nuts.

Peace
 
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