Second Date Update

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My strategy after a first date is not even contact them. Just delete their number and get on with your life, if they are interested in you they will hit you up eventually. If not :manny:

Or you can be that lame lance
 

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Who knows if there is another guy in the picture, if it's an ex that's still lingering around, etc.

Don't even waste a moment of your day trying to make sense of the situation, you'll just be going in circles. Delete her # and that's that breh.
 

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I need yall opinion.
I met this girl on match.com, she gives me her number the next day, and we go out on monday we had a few drinks talked and all that. As I walked her to my car I even do the gentlemanly thing and open the car door for her, and she leaned over and opened my door so I'm thinking this one knows how to act. I drop her off she tells me how she enjoyed herself i give her a hug and little kiss on the cheek and go on my way. So the next time I talk to her she tells me how she had fun and thought I was cool and would like to continue hanging out. The next day we set up a date for the weekend which she seemed excited about or so I thought. tell me why i get a text later on saying she doesn't want to continue dating because she isn't sure we are compatible and doesn't want to waste my time due to her uncertainty. I look at the phone like :wtf: it was all good a few hours ago, how does one change their whole thought process so suddenly it's like her alter ego took over.. any real comments or criticisms are welcomed
aka she went on a date with another nikka after u he dikked her down on the first date and she in love
 

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Who knows if there is another guy in the picture, if it's an ex that's still lingering around, etc.

Don't even waste a moment of your day trying to make sense of the situation, you'll just be going in circles. Delete her # and that's that breh.

I already did all that, that was my initial reaction, I was already talking to another chick while all this was happening.
are u surprised..u did the whole let me open door for and even that weak kiss

you met her online..u suppose to smash on the first night

you should of been more aggressive and tried to smash..grab her ass, do somethign

now u lost money on that dinner and no puzz


come join us on the "quick gems to dealing with women"thread

Thats a possibility, I dont normally do that open the door shyt I just thought I would try it this time
 

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I already did all that, that was my initial reaction, I was already talking to another chick while all this was happening.


Thats a possibility, I dont normally do that open the door shyt I just thought I would try it this time
lesson learned

be a$$hole and brush everything off to these hoes..and u in
i also had to learn it the hard way
 
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