Second Date Update

[Rayzah]

I need yall opinion.
I met this girl on match.com, she gives me her number the next day, and we go out on monday we had a few drinks talked and all that. As I walked her to my car I even do the gentlemanly thing and open the car door for her, and she leaned over and opened my door so I'm thinking this one knows how to act. I drop her off she tells me how she enjoyed herself i give her a hug and little kiss on the cheek and go on my way. So the next time I talk to her she tells me how she had fun and thought I was cool and would like to continue hanging out. The next day we set up a date for the weekend which she seemed excited about or so I thought. tell me why i get a text later on saying she doesn't want to continue dating because she isn't sure we are compatible and doesn't want to waste my time due to her uncertainty. I look at the phone like it was all good a few hours ago, how does one change their whole thought process so suddenly it's like her alter ego took over.. any real comments or criticisms are welcomed

 

[young3000]

She has better options and she was trying to let you down easy since you're a good guy

 

[Astroslik]

should've gone in for the makeout instead of that kiss on the cheek

give that "fukk it attitude" impression quickly

bytches are flakey, always have a multitude of backups at your disposal

When i used to chase bytches instead of focusing on school back in my savage underclassmen years (fresh-sophomore) and part of my junior year i wouldn't even make plans with any chick unless i had 2 solid backups just in case she flaked. shyt is almost expected in this generation, dating scene due to simps is chess not checkers

 

[BezO]

You're not emotionally invested after one date, I hope. Move on immediately & get back in the game. Don't put another second of thought into this. Contact other women instead of revisiting this thread.

 

[Rayzah]

You're not emotionally invested after one date, I hope. Move on immediately & get back in the game. Don't put another second of thought into this. Contact other women instead of revisiting this thread.

naw not really I just thought it was wierd, I've never witnessed anything like that before. but you are right

 

[Soundbwoy]

you share that girl breh

 

[Mr210]

real talk dating is like a freaking crap shoot and should be handled like a woman's first trimester. In the first 2-3 months of dating a chick there is like no point in telling anyone you are seeing a chick, because it can end just like that. I personally hate dating and really, no man should like dating

 

[beenz]

sounds like the bytch found a better alternative than the threadstarter. shyt happens.

on a side note, my boy has been off match.com

dude has no kids, and makes a lot of bread, and has a crib that is literally on the lakefront. he is just lazy and got tired of having to meet broads the conventional way and them being flaky. I suggested he use the internet cuz it allows one to pull hoes while being lazy like he likes to be and he been ever since. this dude doesn't even have internet in his crib. he doing all this with his iphone app.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

are u surprised..u did the whole let me open door for and even that weak kiss

you met her online..u suppose to smash on the first night

you should of been more aggressive and tried to smash..grab her ass, do somethign

now u lost money on that dinner and no puzz


come join us on the "quick gems to dealing with women"thread

 

[Cat piss martini]

send a dikk pic and one with the
if that dont work fukk her uppity ass.
.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

real talk dating is like a freaking crap shoot and should be handled like a woman's first trimester. In the first 2-3 months of dating a chick there is like no point in telling anyone you are seeing a chick, because it can end just like that. I personally hate dating and really, no man should like dating

thats why going on dates is pointless..spending money and wasting time

chicks got like 5 dates lined up throughout the whole week

 

[Mr210]

are u surprised..u did the whole let me open door for and even that weak kiss

you met her online..u suppose to smash on the first night

you should of been more aggressive and tried to smash..grab her ass, do somethign

now u lost money on that dinner and no puzz


come join us on the "quick gems to dealing with women"thread

yep, i never smash a chick on the first date, but i def. doing the kissing thing if Im feeling the chick, the last first date, I was at her crib about to leave and we were holding each other, kissing and whatnot and i slapped her ass like 4 times, she had no issue with it. Gotta be aggresive, it helps knowing how a woman feels about you

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

yep, i never smash a chick on the first date, but i def. doing the kissing thing if Im feeling the chick, the last first date, I was at her crib about to leave and we were holding each other, kissing and whatnot and i slapped her ass like 4 times, she had no issue with it. Gotta be aggresive, it helps knowing how a woman feels about you

breh first date i act like im probably not gonna see this chick again so let me just make it known that i wanna smash from the jump

nikkas hoping for 2nd dates

 

[beenz]

send a dikk pic and one with the
if that dont work fukk her uppity ass.
.

he should have tried the "whip your meat out on her" strategy.

 

[MikelArteta]

More than likely she found someone else. That's why online dating sucks for males women have hundreds of giya hitting them up every day. With the click of a mouse she can find someone more attractive who males more etc.

You were just used for a free dinner a night out.

This is why first dates don't waste money go to a park Or the waterfront.