Say if a Woman that you deem wifey material..

[WaveCapsByOscorp™]

Id hit and say thank you and see you around.

I aint chasing after no chick even if she was a 10.

i know. i mean, just the simple fact that she says she only wants to hook up that once means, to me at least, i wouldn't want to deal with her that much anyways. she wouldn't be "wifey" material. you'd think people would realize that another characteristic of a woman being "wifey" material is the fact she wants to be with you. she's not "wifey" if she just wants to fukk for that night. not to mention the other facts that have been brought out in this thread...

 

[Ooh Marty]

first of all, no grown up dude should be putting up statuses on facebook about his personal life like that. the fact that this friend of urs is doing this shows something's not 100% right with him. such a dude would fall under the category of "idiot, desperate, naive, unsophisticated"

men do catch feelings. but like i said, any sane guy, or might i add, any guy who is experienced with women, knows not to take them at face value. looks can and are deceiving. actions and behavioral patterns can also be deceiving, but not for long.

you got a point, most of the men of my generation arent 100% there anyway.

Hes 21 and he comes off kind of soft, not saying that soft isnt a good thing but he comes off like a straight soft ass bytch. :kattwtf:

 

[Rawtid]

Marty I <3 you, but this was a dumb ass question. A "sane" person wouldn't declare someone LTR material after meeting them one night or would they?

 

[winb83]

i.e.:

1. she was the type you could see yourself in a long term relationship with
2. beautiful inside and out
3. have all the qualities that you want in a woman

But she tell you, "I don't want any relations, I just want one night"

why would a woman that meets the three points of criteria listed say they just want a one night stand?

most normal people don't really go out seeking one night stands. shyt jumps off and afterward they go welp this is our first and last time and it becomes a one night stand.

the perfect woman ain't gonna tell a dude she's just looking for a one night stand. shyt is like Satan knocking on heaven's door to apologize and asking God for forgiveness.

 

[Ooh Marty]

Marty I <3 you, but this was a dumb ass question. A "sane" person wouldn't declare someone LTR material after meeting them one night or would they?

the men on my friendslist on facebook have my mind blown a lot

You know I don't know the difference between a dumb question and a smart question. Plus I'm not sane my damn self.

 

[concise]

I have never understood what the fukk a "wifey" is or what that's supposed to mean.

One of the worst slang words to ever take off. ever.

 

[Ooh Marty]

why would a woman that meets the three points of criteria listed say they just want a one night stand?

most normal people don't really go out seeking one night stands. shyt jumps off and afterward they go welp this is our first and last time and it becomes a one night stand.

the perfect woman ain't gonna tell a dude she's just looking for a one night stand. shyt is like Satan knocking on heaven's door to apologize and asking God for forgiveness.

everyone don't present them self as being insane/crazy/weird/hoeish on a first encounter

Which was obviously the case with this one fella on my facebook friendslsit.

 

[AffordableSuplexReviews]

I'm gon get her pregnant

 

[Rawtid]

I have never understood what the fukk a "wifey" is or what that's supposed to mean.

One of the worst slang words to ever take off. ever.

People like titles.

It means wife-life. Doing everything a wife would do without the ring.

 

[CJ]

We barely even got to an answer yet, everyone stopping it at "if she want one night she isn't wifey."

Playing Devil's Advocate here but you could make a very formidable scenario, ie: she could have just came out of a long term relationship, she was a loyal/trusting gf and you both got close after her breakup. She had a night of need and although wasn't feeling you more than friends, asked if you were down for a friendly fix. That wouldn't necessarily exclude her from "wifey" material.

Anywho, I wouldn't, if I looked at her like that. Cause once you get the taste and she moves on to build a proper relationship with the next man, that shyt will be the shyt that'll make your soul burn slow.

 

[Ronnie Lott]

If you gotta ask then we know the reason I keep outchea huh

I'm confused off that 1?

 

[ThiefyPoo]

I'm confused off that 1?

:ohword: how can I help your clear things up

 

[winb83]

We barely even got to an answer yet, everyone stopping it at "if she want one night she isn't wifey."

because its true. i get what yall trying to do but its a contradiction. if your ideal woman doesn't want to be with you then she's not your ideal woman. the stipulation of the example unravels it.

 

[CJ]

because its true. i get what yall trying to do but its a contradiction. if your ideal woman doesn't want to be with you then she's not your ideal woman. the stipulation of the example unravels it.

I was just playing the other side for argument's sake. The bolded is how I feel personally.

 

[Zapp Brannigan]

see, this is the problem with women. no sane guy comes to the conclusion that a woman is "wifey" material by just looking at her. ur taking the posts from the desperate guys on here too seriously. guys who see a chick with a phat ass and immediately go "oooo wifey wifey wifey". nope. it aint like that hun.

Wifey is the type of chick who, after checking her background, comes out clean and respectful. Wifey to me has very little to do with looks. yeah, i have to be sexually attracted. but a kim kardashian looking chick is worthless to me...if looking for wifey.

so, to answer ur question, any woman who says she wants a "one night stand" was obviously never a wifey material in the first place. i would definitely fucck her, but i'll be forever greatful to have been given the chance to know early on what i was dealing with. so yes, i'd fucck but i'd dip and keep her on the sidelines.

A lesson I learned the hard way...

Where were you when I was 19?