Debra only seemed like a c*nt because her husband does nothing to help her.
Not only does Debra has to deal with ray's mom she gets almost to no help from him in the household, and matter of fact robert has put in more work in the household than ray.
ray is a beat writer/columnist for the sports section. he spends most of his time on the road following the mets. and when he was home he was either working from home or just wanted a second to relax ...... which she wouldnt let him
also ray did try to hepl out..... but she just criticized everything everything he did
robert aint do shyt but snitch on ray or undermine him because he hated to see ray be happy
he told drebra it wasnt a good idea to live near them but she insisted and thought it would be nice
ray may have been a pushover but debra thought she was better than everyone else and had a real shytty attitude