Say brehs is going to the bar by yourself a L?

NoirDynosaur

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Dive bars and Live music venues > Clubs.

When it's your first time going out to a bar solo, it's gonna be nerve wrecking. The first time I went to a dive bar alone, I would get anxious af but it was actually calming. Flirted with the bartender and chopped it up with the locals. This even works better when you're in a different city/state/country

Women do choose when you're alone. Some will be curious about you and start a convo. Happened when I was in Atlanta and DC.

Look approachable. Don't be scared. Enjoy the night.
 

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Went to a steakhouse bar last night and ended up talking to a girl and her coworker. Went bar hopping and had a great time. She just texted me while typing this lol

Most of the time I am solo at a bar, someone talks to me lol last week was a 22 year old couple who are getting married. She initiated a convo by asking my opinion on a cheating clause in the prenup

First thing she told me when I asked her how they met was, “well I used to only date D1 athletes….” :francis: Breh she with now the complete opposite of that lol it was so many red flags during the convo that I just wish them the best lol
 

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nah, met multiple cute girls that ended up smashing and seeing til this day by just going out to a bar on my own. Would recommend it actually, sometimes you can spend more time and focus on the girl when you dont have to worry about what your boys are gonna be doin.
 

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I went solo before in the sense that i got there before the people i was meeting up with. You can socialize with others or just do your thing. It was cool.
 

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Funny I was looking at this thread last night before I went out solo. Went to this spot with a reverse happy hour(9 pm-12pm) I go there and it’s straight couples so I’m about to leave and I see this one light skin girl across the bar sipping wine.

I decide fukk it imma stay and get another drink. She kept texting on her phone and watching videos. Eventually I went over and asked her if she was writing a book since all she was doing was texting on her phone.

Come to find out she was a med student that was in town for the weekend. I got the digits and I’m seeing how I could link her before she dips out of town.

TLDR- Go out alone you’ll meet shorties easier
 
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