Saw an idiot proposing last night

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That's the same guy that implied that my boyfriends should have checked/verbally abused me because I got an attitude over something he did. He wants his woman to live in fear. That's not a healthy way to live.
i don't remember saying your bf should have verbally abused you. could you quote that post?
 

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I said implied. "Checking" an adult like their some type of dog that needs training is abusive imo.
checking means when someone disrespects you, you tell them not to do it again. Kinda like what you did when you said you nagged your boyfriend over something wrong he did. it has nothing to do with treating someone like a child or a dog. it has to do with making sure your boundaries are respected.
 

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checking means when someone disrespects you, you tell them not to do it again. Kinda like what you did when you said you nagged your boyfriend over something wrong he did. it has nothing to do with treating someone like a child or a dog. it has to do with making sure your boundaries are respected.
Why would you be getting disrespected by the your wife?
 

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So what?

her getting an attitude with him doesn't = disrespect.
why are you still talking about her and her boyfriend. that shyt is done breh :dwillhuh: i asked her if he checked her because she originally said he didn't deserve that treatment. she then explained that he doesn't deserve it in general but at that specific moment he had done something wrong which is why she nagged him. since i didn't know exactly what SouthernBelle's boyfriend had done wrong at that point and since it was none of my business i just let it go.
 

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They got an upper hand on emasculated males but real men see what's up. I don't chase women man. Never have never will. These old world rules don't apply to our current society. I just spent the last week with a girl who was basically making fun of a man trying to win her heart over for being too nice. She moved into his place within a month and he let her, and she only noticed him cuz of what he drove :snoop: Then she got "tired" of him and started talking to the ex that threw her in the bushes while this good guy tries everything to get her back. Both men are rich too, and the nice guy followed her to the club last week and bought her a bottle as the place was shutting down n she left him standing there with a waste of money he couldn't consume. I'm around enough women to see this pattern all the time, I don't fukk with her FYI but I got her renting a spot from me so I hear all this shyt and just go :russ:. Don't win women over with money or chase like a dog cuz it only devalues your manhood. I would never settle down with any of these immature dumb bishes and most of all I would not propose to anyone that was shaky. If she in the restaurant with a stank face while he professing love then he already lost cuz that reluctance can't bode well for a future together. The worst are men who try to use marriage to hold on to a woman.

get married brehs... :russ:

please someone break down the benefits of marrage to me...

To be completely honest some form of chasing is required.
 

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:manny: I have a cousin who just had his 15th marriage anniversary the other day and they got married in their early 20's so Why not

Edit: He's reakless and cool still. smokes weed and hangs out but still takes care of his kids and work ect.
you can be how you want as long as your mate is a match for you.
So what?

her getting an attitude with him doesn't = disrespect.
Yes it does... Mature adults don't cop an attitude, they express themselves in a better way. U guys wanna troll him all day for ho he handles his wife while being unable to admit women can do wrong too :troll:
 
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