Saucy Santana opens up about being sexually abused by his cousin, carried on until he was 16

[King_Kamala61]

Is this the one ppl were going crazy over him twerking? Still haven't found that video, but molestation is how a lot of this shyt starts

That is him. I haven't seen the video

 

[Yaboysix]

Just like I said in the ghost face Gay son thread...

If he was MY son I would have a heart to heart with him and ASK him Was he sexually abused by someone close to us, who touched him?

I've met a lot of cool gay people and every one of them was messed with sexually by someone close to them ..

I didn't even know this happened to Santana and would you look at that ...

His mama and the whole family need they ass beat

 

[Standing on business]

Is this the one ppl were going crazy over him twerking? Still haven't found that video, but molestation is how a lot of this shyt starts

Spoiler

 

[Yaboysix]

Is this the one ppl were going crazy over him twerking? Still haven't found that video, but molestation is how a lot of this shyt starts

You ain't missing out on nothing...his Shyt don't be moving like that.....



Pause!...for research purposes of course

 

[Buckeye Fever]

Spoiler

That don't make no damn sense

 

[Buckeye Fever]

You ain't missing out on nothing...his Shyt don't be moving like that.....



Pause!...for research purposes of course

I always said that a man simply watching something like that doesn't make them gay.

We watch all types of movies of ppl getting killed. That doesn't make us murderers

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

I don’t like how him and his mom are okay with letting the cousin get away with it

Sadly, I believe that is more common than we would like to think. Some people think making the family look good on the outside is more important.

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

like what? if this happened when they were both underage
imagine if the cousin is married with kids now and hasn't done real dirt since. exposing him could tear the whole family apart, some will side with the cousin as they don't want to believe it. what if his momma sinks into depression and starts drinking cuz she feels she let her son down?

there's reasons a lot of shyt gets swept under the rug in (black) families.

 

[Gloxina]

like what? if this happened when they were both underage
imagine if the cousin is married with kids now and hasn't done real dirt since. exposing him could tear the whole family apart, some will side with the cousin as they don't want to believe it. what if his momma sinks into depression and starts drinking cuz she feels she let her son down?

there's reasons a lot of shyt gets swept under the rug in (black) families.

Yea yea yea whatever, that person(man or woman) gon die if they was in my family. Y’all be giving these nikkas passes but wanna talk tough

so if you have two boys and one molests the other, you will kill your son? even if he is grown when you find out?

Gotta go!!!!

@alpo THANK YOU!

This is exactly why this shyt continues. People make excuses for the abusers AT THE EXPENSE OF THE VICTIMS.


So the victim has to keep quiet so that their parents don’t feel bad/feel like they failed their child? FUKK THAT. You did fail your child.

Keep it silent because now he’s married with kids? FUKK THAT. For all you know he’s abusing his own kids or kids in his wife’s family.

This is why the shyt never ends. No one wants to put the dirt out there and deal with it. Punish and shun these ppl and make sure ppl know what the deal is so they can keep their children away from them.

 

[Gloxina]

This is what I wanted to know so that cousin has basically been allowed to continue targeting other kids

Exactly. THAT is the problem

 

[Gloxina]

Exactly! Making excuses for abusers at the expense of victims

 

[Cloutius Maximus]

woah i'm not saying it's right, obviously it's fukked up, i'm just being realistic about what happens. Like someone said above, a lot of families would rather protect their image.

I also mentioned the abuser possibly having kids. Might fukk the kids up if they find out Daddy was on some weird shyt

 

[Gloxina]

woah i'm not saying it's right, obviously it's fukked up, i'm just being realistic about what happens. Like someone said above, a lot of families would rather protect their image.

I also mentioned the abuser possibly having kids. Might fukk the kids up if they find out Daddy was on some weird shyt

It fukks the kids up because the abuser will probably abuse their own kids or other kids in the family!
THIS IS WHY ABUSE IS GENERATIONAL. Ppl don’t want to say shyt, so the abuser is free to do something to the next generation, and then they are damaged and they do something to the next generation.

THIS IS WHY IT NEVER ENDS. No one wants to step up and call these ppl out because they’re afraid of rocking the boat. You’re just giving the abuser a pass to continue

 

[MrLogic]

Not trying to victim blame the mom

(didn't watch the video)

Did the mom not like beat his cousins ass ?
and just let go on

 

[2 Up 2 Down]

woah i'm not saying it's right, obviously it's fukked up, i'm just being realistic about what happens. Like someone said above, a lot of families would rather protect their image.

I also mentioned the abuser possibly having kids. Might fukk the kids up if they find out Daddy was on some weird shyt

The daddy fukked up someone much worse with a lifetime scar, his kids will get over it