Yall keep saying this
Who's heated we having a discussion on a message board about REALITY in the black community..
But women just want to support irresponsibility like it should be rewarded.. Just because Ciara is a woman
Me and my friends have this very same discussion all the time, in real life.
We talk about how we can't really get with single mothers (wedlock) and why.. Then we talk about females we know who come back around just because they are single mothers when before they weren't trying to do shyt but play around.. And then we talk about how they get curved
My homeboy for example... No simp type guy but he loved this one chick before she didn't have kids.. Now she has 2 by 2 different guys. And now she wants to settle down with him, she's going to school, appreciates the shyt he did, etc., when we're both like why didn't you do that shyt in the first place
He can't even talk on the phone to her because she's yelling at her kids
Then she offers him the p*ssy but then tries to attach strings to it...
What single guy wants to willingly put himself through that.
Not to mention if she DID have his kid... It wouldn't mean as much to her as it would to him. I've seen that happen in my own family