I agree with your points but to further add, this is a problem that is not talked about enough with REAL MEN. So many people failed that little girl and other kids like her.You think he's been taking your daughter out of day care to molest her... You stayed with him and left them alone together
You've seen him BEAT your mentally ill daughter so bad she needed to go to the hospital....You stayed with him and left them alone together
You told him NOT to bathe your daughter....He continued.... You stayed with him and left them alone together
Like what is the tipping point man? Seriously? That nicca will be food in jail he will get his....But she needs to be beat to death by the whole hood, on god.
If you're a real man and you're with a woman, and things don't work out with you guys and a child is conceived during the relationship. Then post divorce/breakup you have to be a STRONG influence in the child's life. Regardless if there is bad tension with the mom. Stay in the child's life. Because she may get with a man that is not so nice to your kid(s). How many stories do we read about, or know personally, or been thru ourselves with the "stepfather" comes into the picture who isn't about shyt. Beating on the mom, molesting kids, beating the kids, etc...
If you're a strong, positive influence in your kids life, NO MAN can come in doing those things. What's understood doesn't have to be spoken and he will respect the boundaries and stories like this would not happen...
On the flip side:
If you're dusty ass male yourself, and you conceive a child with a dirty ass hoodrat and you don't know how to be a man therefore you can't be a good father. What type of life will your child have when you have no tangibles yourself? A hoodrat ass woman can only eat what she can catch and they use the phrase that they gotta have a life inspite of their kids. Bringing different men around your kids constantly, it's just sad/pathetic and a vicious cycle...
In this situation, it sounds like the mom, stepfather, and father are not about shyt when cases of child abuse were already filed.
REAL WOMEN and MEN break up everyday and a real woman would NOT bring men around her kid(s) until she knew that new man was properly vetted and understood her kid(s) has a father in their life and know your role. But a hoodrat, and PLEASE understand that term is not synonymous with black women and this is not only a black issues because it's plenty of dusty white, meth infested women doing the same shyt when the boyfriend is molesting the kids..
Only person I feel sorry for in this case is the little girl, I digress...smh
