RIP Black America

[TLOL is back]

Hilarious. Presenter exaggerated but yeah there is definitely a problem with some women wanting all the attention all the time. Type aspiring to be a diva and always in drama. It's just weird and counterproductive. And it's not just Black women.

Its not just attention. Women (in general) don't want to take a submissive role in the relationship, and then complain when they're unhappy with their relationships and/or can't find someone. Oh well

I remember a while back one woman was flabbergasted that I picked another woman over her. She was so upset, and couldn't understand why. I told her simply "you're argumentative and occasionally give me problems. The woman who does the most for me, is the woman who gets me. That's the only fair way."

After it ended with the latter girl, the former girl came back, started making me sandwiches, doing my laundry being a sweetheart, overall good girl. I told her it was too late, and she had her chance. I think she learned her lesson for future relationships.

 

[Guess Who]

A few things:

Vitriolic attacks are no way to get your point across and to get the people you want to listen to actually listen.

Secondly, many of the points made in this video apply to North American women in general, not just black women.

Finally, we need to stop these labels of "good" black women and "good" black men. They're inherently divisive, and loaded terms with no real objective definition. It's counterproductive and fuels the infighting we have against each other.

Let's stop attacking each other and heal each other instead.

 

[Sinnerman]

A few things:

Vitriolic attacks are no way to get your point across and to get the people you want to listen to actually listen.

Secondly, many of the points made in this video apply to North American women in general, not just black women.

Finally, we need to stop these labels of "good" black women and "good" black men. They're inherently divisive, and loaded terms with no real objective definition. It's counterproductive and fuels the infighting we have against each other.

Let's stop attacking each other and heal each other instead.

Dapped and repped for the bolded.

 

[The Message]

Sadly White Men in Power have created different styles of systems to confuse the masses. One way was to influence white women to influence black women into Feminist Movement.

 

[Habit]

Its not just attention. Women (in general) don't want to take a submissive role in the relationship, and then complain when they're unhappy with their relationships and/or can't find someone. Oh well

I remember a while back one woman was flabbergasted that I picked another woman over her. She was so upset, and couldn't understand why. I told her simply "you're argumentative and occasionally give me problems. The woman who does the most for me, is the woman who gets me. That's the only fair way."

After it ended with the latter girl, the former girl came back, started making me sandwiches, doing my laundry being a sweetheart, overall good girl. I told her it was too late, and she had her chance. I think she learned her lesson for future relationships.

This sounds really impressive.

I have one question, though. Were these chicks doctors, lawyers, or business execs or just some regular birds off the street?

The reason I ask, I want to make sure I don't overrate your accomplishments. Especially, if all you have in the end is some bird brain who waits on you hand and foot.

 

[Sierra Mist]

This video is so old though but it's still a classic. It's sill probably the best video regarding the whole "gender war" on youtube. Too bad they won't air THAT on Tyra.

 

[TLOL is back]

This sounds really impressive.

I have one question, though. Were these chicks doctors, lawyers, or business execs or just some regular birds off the street?

The reason I ask, I want to make sure I don't overrate your accomplishments. Especially, if all you have in the end is some bird brain who waits on you hand and foot.

It sounds impressive because it is:
a) Outside the norm of societal expectations of typical relationships.
b) Seen as a woman waiting on a man hand and foot.

Its really not impressive at all. Unusual, yes. Impressive, no. And it is a mistake to think a woman doing housework and being submissive is "waiting on you hand and foot." Its simply female chivalry. Women love male chivalry, they just don't want to put in their end of the deal (female chivalry). In return for their feminine chivalry, I treat them well via masculine chivalry. I never disrespected any woman who treated me well - quite the opposite. They often made comments about how they were never in a relationship where mutual respect was so prioritized (I held my end of the deal at all times).

If you're social and flirting with girls, chances are that you have a couple who like you. This is not an accomplishment, its normal (I'm pretty average looking). You then smash (both), and when they want a relationship you reject them and tell them they don't want to be with a caveman like you. When they ask what you mean, you say you believe in "traditional gender roles in a relationship." She might ask at this point if you just want a woman to wait on you hand and foot, to which you explain that the man has a lot of responsibilities to the woman too (and he does), and that question alone is an example of why you two wouldn't work out. If she likes you, she will let that swirl around in her head for a while, and then eventually tell you she's willing to be in that kind of relationship. At this point do you take her? Nope. You insist that she is not ready to be in such a relationship, because she's a modern woman and you're a traditional man. Then she will spend time actually convincing you she can do it. Then you use your common sense for when to give in at this point. After its said and done, she will feel lucky to have you because she invested a lot in attaining you while every other guy she dated probably had to chase her.

In the example I provided above, the first was a nurse and the girl I chose over her was a grad student. Even if they were both scholars at Harvard I would urge you not to consider these things accomplishments. You'd be surprised how many women are willing to be compliant for a man they consider to be strong/masculine. Women have a subconscious yearning to be completely submissive for a masculine man... They just need someone to pull it out of them. The less damaged they are by Western society, the more easily they can connect with their inner desires and achieve happiness.

 

[Habit]

It sounds impressive because it is:
a) Outside the norm of societal expectations of typical relationships.
b) Seen as a woman waiting on a man hand and foot.

Its really not impressive at all. Unusual, yes. Impressive, no. And it is a mistake to think a woman doing housework and being submissive is "waiting on you hand and foot." Its simply female chivalry. Women love male chivalry, they just don't want to put in their end of the deal (female chivalry). In return for their feminine chivalry, I treat them well via masculine chivalry. I never disrespected any woman who treated me well - quite the opposite. They often made comments about how they were never in a relationship where mutual respect was so prioritized (I held my end of the deal at all times).

If you're social and flirting with girls, chances are that you have a couple who like you. This is not an accomplishment, its normal (I'm pretty average looking). You then smash (both), and when they want a relationship you reject them and tell them they don't want to be with a caveman like you. When they ask what you mean, you say you believe in "traditional gender roles in a relationship." She might ask at this point if you just want a woman to wait on you hand and foot, to which you explain that the man has a lot of responsibilities to the woman too (and he does), and that question alone is an example of why you two wouldn't work out. If she likes you, she will let that swirl around in her head for a while, and then eventually tell you she's willing to be in that kind of relationship. At this point do you take her? Nope. You insist that she is not ready to be in such a relationship, because she's a modern woman and you're a traditional man. Then she will spend time actually convincing you she can do it. Then you use your common sense for when to give in at this point. After its said and done, she will feel lucky to have you because she invested a lot in attaining you while every other guy she dated probably had to chase her.

In the example I provided above, the first was a nurse and the girl I chose over her was a grad student. Even if they were both scholars at Harvard I would urge you not to consider these things accomplishments. You'd be surprised how many women are willing to be compliant for a man they consider to be strong/masculine. Women have a subconscious yearning to be completely submissive for a masculine man... They just need someone to pull it out of them. The less damaged they are by Western society, the more easily they can connect with their inner desires and achieve happiness.

Fantastic! Congratulations, my dude.

 

[WhiteDawg3000]

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