Women need to learn that they're happiest when they're (willfully) submissive.
Strong independent women of any race are going to end up unhappy even when they find someone. It will not last, unless she cheats throughout her marriage (because her man isn't dominant over her enough).
I agree, a man is supposed to lead their household.
I look at other races, Latinos, Cubans, whites, blacks from the Caribbeans and West Indies and realized that they have some strong independent women. No one can deny that fact, I see these other races of women everyday, and I wish my black women could have it as easy as them.
They don't have the same problems that black women do, because their men know how to lead their household and gain trust & confidence from their women. On the other hand black women have much less to work with because these black men go into their 20s and 30s trying to figure life out. Most of these dudes are trying to figure life out through trial and error.
So I wish there was a solid foundation in place, because I'm sure things would turn out much different. Why do people still argue black women have no one to blame but themselves, when other races shows its the man that has to step up. I don't see things changing because
Black Channel Official Homepage just did 1 hour video placing all the burden on the woman.
As a black man, I take all the blame, because the responsibility lies with me.
