We don't want this to become TLR 2, but we also don't want to be tyrants. I go with the majority here not my personal opinions.
If you see something that offends you, inappropriate, blatant trolling etc... please report it. The person doesn't know who reports them, just the mods.
Please believe they are reporting you in TLR, and even in here. This is not to start a war or being petty. I usually let things like that roll off my back. This is to keep this place clean. If we want to see that, we can go in TLR. But if you don't care I'm not touching it unless I see something blatant.
UPDATE:
I bushed the thread. It went left from the original OP. Feel free to make another thread for warnings and venting, pm me, hate me etc...
I just thought to sticky this again for eveyone and new posters. This is just general without the personal stuff for everyone to see.
Harrassment Tips:
- If a poster if poster is harrassing you report it and keep records.
- If a poster is harrassing you place them on ignore, you will not get messages from them, dap notifications, unfortunately you will still get rep notifications.
- If it is excessive and threatening, The admins can forcebly put you on the person's ignore list. They can't see you, you can't see them. I believe that stops the rep not sure
My thought is that they can't see a post to rep you on.
- If you are being the seriously threatened report it, take screenshots, keep the PM, report the PM the admins can see them and review them.They could be banned.
- Please remember where we are. This is the coli, more than likely pics will get saved and shared, personal information will get shared. People are fake. Some are creeps. Some of the "nicest, friendliest" guys on here are the main ones. Be careful or learn the hard way.
- You can also turn off PM's completely off and no one can even begin to awkwardly PM you.
- I can't ban someone from a section because they keep pming you, Ignoring is your best and easiest option. If they have nothing you care about getting out or nothing at all you don't even have to worry about what they might be saying.
There are guys on here that are very awkward in communicating with women privately...While you pm and go on about your life they are waiting for the reply. They PM constantly, dap for your attention when you haven't replied but they see you posting. Send random messages you can't really respond like "what do I even say to that"
Seem too attached, take this too serious when you are just having fun out here. Makes posting uncomfortable, you feel pressured like you are being watched can't post freely. You feel pressured to respond. Ignore them
Its wonderful trust me. This is part of posting on a forum.
Hopefully guys will read this and see:
- No one wants to feel like they are being watched. They will probably stop responding to you .
- No one wants to talk to someone they feel pressured to respond to. They will probably stop responding to you.
- Dapping to get someones attention is creepy and desperate. They will probably stop responding to you.
- As in real life if you are doing all the work the person probably not interested in whatever.
- Sending a message after the last one didn't get a response is thirsty. Sending 3rd one is thrisy as hell. They will probably stop responding to you .Why waste time with someone that doesn't want to talk to you?
Just some advice
I didn't mean to make you do something extra. My bad.
