Report: Florida man beat child with belt because of school grades

[Dwight Howard]

Annnnnnnnnnddddd you didn't post any.

The Spanking Debate Is Over

As long as the state supports my position...I don't need to.

 

[WaveWhisperer]

I think its like always like that tho right?

Like, my pops was always just chill as fukk.
Plus when he got home he would kick back, smoke a joint, and he'll sit and predict shyt to me.
He be like, "son, your mother is gonna beat the breaks off your sister."


And i go, "but dad...
Why?"



"Cause she probably done did some dumb shyt today."

breh

 

[the bossman]

Let’s see, kid back talks parent, they get smacked in the mouth...that’s ok

Wife back talks husband, gets smacked in the mouth....that’s o...oh wait, that’s not ok


But wait, aren’t they both discipline to teach said person not to engage in some “unacceptable” behavior?

I'm amazed yall don't understand looking at situations with context. cot damn.

You and your girlfriends call each other bytches in a friendly way so it's okay for men to call you that right?

It's not okay for your husband to forbid you from going outside so it's not okay for a parent to forbid their child from going outside right?

A parent can takeaway a child's phone so your husband can takeaway your phone right?

 

[the bossman]

Now, your kid can't obey or learn unless it's with aggression or violence (yes, spanking, whooping, etc. is violence).

The extremes yall go to I swear. so if you ever got beat as a child you're forever scarred to the point where you can never learn anything new unless it's through violence now

There whole bunch of shyt the average parent ain't giving their children (social ties, financial investment in their early adulthood, safety net, etc.) but will be goddamn if we skip the whoopings.

Because if you discipline your kid through spanking it means you will never open up a 529 plan or pay for anything they need like any other loving parent would

 

[Easy-E]

The extremes yall go to I swear. so if you ever got beat as a child you're forever scarred to the point where you can never learn anything new unless it's through violence now


Because if you discipline your kid through spanking it means you will never open up a 529 plan or pay for anything they need like any other loving parent would

None of that was posted by me. You coming late to a back and forth and quoting shyt out of context.

I'm not anti-spanking/whopping/corporal punishment. But, there's is nuance debate to be had about it.

I'm tired of people, in general, talking about it like it's divine or something.

YES, plenty of people will show their children the door at 18--now, you playing--with no financial security, no social networks (ex. do you know a lawyer, personally, to help you out if your kid got in legal trouble) to "grow up." Student loans ain't support. Discipline ain't support. Being a "loving parent" ain't support.

But, hey, we made sure he got whoopings.

Why So Many Minority Millennials Can't Get Ahead Without the financial support that many white families can provide, minority young people have to continually make sacrifices that set them back

Why So Many Minority Millennials Can't Get Ahead

I'm trying to make the point your child is gonna need more than "discipline" to make it in the world.

Everyone acknowledges times are changing, but, are insulted by the idea we have to change with them.

Recent polls indicate that a large portion of Millennials receive financial help from parents. At least 40 percent of the 1,000 Millennials (ages 18 to 34) polled in a March USA Today/Bank of America poll get help from parents on everyday expenses. A Clark University poll indicated an even higher number, with almost three-quarters of parents reporting that they provide their Millennial children with financial support. Another survey saw nearly a third of Baby Boomers paying for Millennials’ medical expenses. A quarter of Boomers subsidized “other expenses” so their Millennial offspring could save money. Black and Hispanic Americans are less likely to be the recipients of this type of support.

As long as the state supports my position...I don't need to.

So...your first quote to me was just trolling.

 

[LordDeathwatch]

Exactly. I’m legit known as the one in my family that got the most whoopins but I’m on the first page like, did some of y’all read the story

And a lot of times when these types of stories pop up there’s always a part about taking all your clothes off before the whoopin. I caught some bad ones as a kid but I never had to strip naked or got it to the point I had crazy marks everywhere.

Y’all were really catching butt naked ass whoopins like that

Yeah, brehs glossed over that shyt entirely. Pulling your pants down but still having on drawers because they're not trying to let you have padding like the breh @JParker mentioned is normal. Most of us have been there before, as my Moms used to say "I'm not trying to beat no clothes."

Butt naked to get a whoopin' is some next level weird shyt. Bruises on the chest is a sign that you're out of control, as an adult you should have control over your swing. Yes some kids flop around like a got damn fish during but that's no excuse for garbage aim unless you A.) Don't care or B) You're pissed off. In either case, you shouldn't be giving punishment.

That's why most parents had you wait, dreading the ass whipping; it also gives them time to calm down so when they do punish you it's focused and not some wild rage bullshyt. Never whoop your kids when you're angry.

 

[Maxine Shaw]

You are being obtuse. Striking a child has a legitimate purpose of correcting bad behavior.

But it's *not* correcting the bad behavior. That's why this kid keeps getting beaten.

 

[Rollie Forbes]

This is old school right here.

And just as i thought - it's a black man

So we're locking up brehs for being good parents now?

 

[Rollie Forbes]

Extra soft. My parents demanded my best in school and enforced their demands with "the belt".
I was whipped into acedemic excellence; all praises due to Mom and Dad.

 

[Mtt]

You can't raise your children anymore







Report: Florida man beat child with belt because of school grades
by STEVE WILAJ | WEAR Staff

Tuesday, January 28th 2020











Darryl McRae (Photo: Escambia County Sheriff's Office)

PENSACOLA, Fla. (WEAR) -- Deputies arrested a Pensacola man for beating a child with a belt and leaving welts all over his body, according to an Escambia County Sheriff's report.

Darryl McRae, 33, is charged with child cruelty. He's being held without bond in Escambia County jail.









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The report states that on Monday, a child approached a school resource officer while at school and said McRae gave him a "whoopin'" on Sunday because of his grades.

According to the report, the child said his father made him take all of his clothes off and used a belt to hit him, which left bruises on his chest and leg. The child said McRae struck him about 15 times with the belt. He added that McRae has beaten him multiple times in the past with either a belt, switch or ruler.


The officer observed welts all over the child's body, the report states.

A woman told the officer she was unaware of the incident and was sleeping when it happened. She also seemed unconcerned about the child's injuries, according to the report.

A school counselor then contacted Department of Children and Families, the report states. DCF took the child into custody.

Deputies arrested McRae on Monday. He wouldn't speak to officers without a lawyer present, the report states.

Report: Florida man beat child with belt because of school grades

shyt at least my mom pulled me out of school before beating the shyt outta me. I was tripping in high school and I thought about running away when I got out the car because I knew she was about to go loco but I knew she would probably run me down and dropkick me out my shoes at 2 in the morning. That ride from school to home felt like I was on a prison bus

My nephew was a class clown and his daddy came up to the school in the third grade and beat his ass in front of the whole classroom. It really left him scarred for life.

I think corporal punishment should be used at the discretion of parents but limits need to be put on it. I’ve seen kids get 30-40 licks for the smallest of shyt.

I do think it goes to an extreme. I’ve seen parents punching children, making you kneel in sand, making you hold books with your arms outright for 15-30 minutes, crazy shyt.

therapy would help a lot of people, young and old

I understand what you mean about discipline your kids but their are kids who have learning disabled or other issues and get beaten cause they don't Excel in school.

The issue is also too many parents having kids when they themselves are not "ready" financially to have kids and or not "mature enough and these parents don't have "resources" to get these kids in after school programs or other activities like paid tutoring .

You also have parents having poor parenting and dialogue skills .