Remember when all you needed was a good hairline and a nice smile to get a woman?

[Devilinurear]

Whatever happen to those days?

We old

 

[Wild self]

You mean the 6'4 - six figures/rich. - six pack - over six inches requirement? And that women would always want more and chase the next guy?

Yeah, sure i get it. But again, women have always wanted that. The differences is that it used to be easier for women to settle before the online dating/social media era because of

A) proximity.

B) men did a better job of being masculine back then

Nowadays, too many dudes are either autistic gymbros that are weirdos, flat out incels, or they are good guys but have zero masculine energy (soft voice, soft looking body, etc.). Or decent looking dudes that are socially inept.

Not enough regular, likeable dudes that are masculine (some muscle, bass in the voice) and have that playboy energy or stern vibe, but still a decent guy with morals and willingness to be a good partner

Let's be real, most of these chicks complaining still be fukkkng and falling for absolute BUMS. You really think some of them wouldn't be satisfied with a 90s type of dude?

I aint the chatty patty extrovert type, maybe that's why I hate small talk and clout chasing social settings nowadays

 

[I love Latina women]

We old

 

[O.G.B]

I never heard Martin step to Gina about "50/50"

That's because Gina had enough sense to get a job & contribute to the household bills.

 

[Malcolmxxx_23]

I don’t blame women

Too many weirdo anti social /autistic dudes

 

[Shadow King]

I don’t blame women

Too many weirdo anti social /autistic dudes

You back to trolling?

 

[KidJSoul]

Yeah my guy you sounding like you passed the phone to a woman.

Breh I keep it real

Women have crazy standards by default. I'll concede that it's worse now than in the past.

But men aren't doing themselves any favors. Some guys are just waking around weird, insecure, and immature.

What's your take on this matter?

 

[Wild self]

Breh I keep it real

Women have crazy standards by default. I'll concede that it's worse now than in the past.

But men aren't doing themselves any favors. Some guys are just waking around weird, insecure, and immature.

What's your take on this matter?

Its both. Why else is Andrew Tate the most googled male name on Earth?

 

[Shadow King]

Breh I keep it real

Women have crazy standards by default. I'll concede that it's worse now than in the past.

But men aren't doing themselves any favors. Some guys are just waking around weird, insecure, and immature.

What's your take on this matter?

My take on this matter is that this rhetoric is generally female solipsism and ridiculous standards in combination. Any changes in gender roles or expression, and social skills, has affected both young men and women.

At 31 years old I simply do not see this generality of autistic, dirty, feminine doughboys that keeps getting purported. Any man doing what you did in the previous response is no different than Boomers shìtting on Millennials for not having to walk to school 10 miles uphill both ways and becoming "real men" out of it.

A larger look at how society has changed is more productive than constantly telling each generation of men that they're inferior to the last, especially when the other half of the species is the one that changed the game.

 

[KidJSoul]

My take on this matter is that this rhetoric is generally female solipsism and ridiculous standards in combination. Any changes in gender roles or expression, and social skills, has affected both young men and women.

At 31 years old I simply do not see this generality of autistic, dirty, feminine doughboys that keeps getting purported. Any man doing what you did in the previous response is no different than Boomers shìtting on Millennials for not having to walk to school 10 miles uphill both ways and becoming "real men" out of it.

A larger look at how society has changed is more productive than constantly telling each generation of men that they're inferior to the last, especially when the other half of the species is the one that changed the game.

I know it's harsh

I'm not trying to take away accountability from women - in just saying that they've always kind of been this way. Women by nature, as a group, tend to always desire more since they don't have to act.

I'm saying there are things men can do make things easier for themselves, that they are currently not doing.

Striking a balance between being masculine, while still being a good person, will do wonders.

There will still be some delusional women out there. My point though is that many of the delusional women with high standards are capping, to an extent - if you just act masculine and fukk them good, they'll shut up.

 

[Shadow King]

I know it's harsh

I'm not trying to take away accountability from women - in just saying that they've always kind of been this way. Women by nature, as a group, tend to always desire more since they don't have to act.

I'm saying there are things men can do make things easier for themselves, that they are currently not doing.

Striking a balance between being masculine, while still being a good person, will do wonders.

There will still be some delusional women out there. My point though is that many of the delusional women with high standards are capping, to an extent - if you just act masculine and fukk them good, they'll shut up.

"Act masculine and fuçk them good" is still Boomeresque talk but aight.

 

[FlyRy]

all you need is a beard and a passport

 

[Jalether]

A smile does wonders. You don't have to show teeth. A small smile melts hearts.

"Yep you can look like mick jagger and get mad buns, all you need is a smile" head ass

"

 

[KidJSoul]

"Act masculine and fuçk them good" is still Boomeresque talk but aight.

I mean, most chicks yeah

I see what you mean though. A lot of chicks have ridiculous standards deep down inside.

 

[Shadow King]

I mean, most chicks yeah

I see what you mean though. A lot of chicks have ridiculous standards deep down inside.

Boiling it down to that ignored everything I said. And "fuçk em good" specifically puts the cart before the horse.