If the law said it wasnt illegal to sleep with minors, if it was just morally wrong, I think probably 90% of dudes would be R. Kelly. Having discipline is a gift...its a learned skill. Weak males, especially weak males with some power, have difficulty with restraint and discipline, so this isnt too shocking to me. Before pedophilia was a serious crime that shyt was common place, do the history...men are sickos and always have been.
And why would you continue to work with and be cordial with a pedophile? That is cause for banishment and excommunication, complete ostracism. Really they deserve the guillotine...but since it's illegal we cant do em like that...discipline