Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[The ADD]

You have a wife.

Go spend time with her instead of us who have nothing better to do.

Good point

 

[Sensitive Christian Grey]

Crazy how this threads page numbers doubled in like a week

 

[Scaaar]

Why you still going back and forth with breh? You can't see him trying to exit the conversation?

He's showing exactly why he's single and nobody wants him. Breh is obsessed with trying to be a victim

 

[Scaaar]

I work with some extremely unattractive, ashy men who will come to work not smelling the best. They have women and children which is absolutely crazy y to me.

One guy is shorter than me, never washes his face, has a ton of acne and always has white shyt on the corners of his mouth. I literally had his ex try to come and get him fired. The bytch was stalking him. And dude moves like a creepy spy. I think he is a weirdo.

I promise you you are not too unattractive.

Pearl you're wasting your time with that one. Any encouragement or positivity he'll flip it back. He wants to be a victim that way he can't be accountable for his circumstances

 

[Westbama Heartthrob]

Of course they can.

I don't think by 35 a person has everything needed for a relationship figured out.

But I do think the fact that a person at 35 has never been in a relationship is not going to be able to be in one.

I'm talking about simple things like holding a woman's hand, kissing, showing affection. Imagine a man who's never done these things.

A woman at 35 is tryna to figure out things bigger than holding hands and kissing.

But yeen gotta be in a relationship to do those things

Though I do get your point, jokes aside. Best I can tell you is that experience don't equal skill

Ideally, if two people love and care about each other that type of thing wouldn't be a deal breaker. Hard part is finding that genuine connection not based on pure sexual, monetary, or psychosocial merit

But if you can get a chance, it won't be as difficult as it may seem. Like I said, if you have a genuine connection things will go smoother. Not perfect but it will alleviate some of the pressure

 

[Scaaar]

I hear you.

Idk how familiar you are with my font but I constantly get disrespected on here by men. Constantly. I have a block list that's probably 30/40 deep. They have stalked me, lied on me, tried to hulimate me, called me ugly and attempted to doxx me.

They have called me every name under the sun and have even threatened to raped me and have told me they hoped my father raped me.

And all this has happened on this forum. Some of the very men in this thread have done that. And never once have any of them ever been able to find a shred of evidence that any of what the call me is true.

I made a post a few years back and told them because of the way they treat me I no longer sympathize with their plight nor will I ever advocate for them. I still stand by that.

So I have experience being miss treated by men. Not the same as you but it's there for everyone to see and read.

However, something I realized long ago is that most humans are trash. They're judgements are laughable. The same dude calling me a slut or ugly is dumber than a box of rocks and will never have or accomplish anything.

Nothing any of these people have wished on me has ever come true. NOTHING. They have no power. They're literally nothing. And the one man on here who thought he was going to humble me got the shyt smack out of him and sent running out the club crying.

So I could cry in the corner because a bunch of powerless losers who have never had an original thought think I'm less than...

Or...

I just do what I do and live my life happily. I use it as inspiration. Everytime someone insults me I know it's because I made them feel like the shyt they are. I respond by further roasting them, and then I tell them that they're life and their opinion is meaningless, and then I blocked them to prove it.

Life is mindset. If you wanna be sad then you'll be sad. If you wanna be a loser then that's what you are.

The minute you decide life is better than it is.

The point of this reality is to realize that true validation comes from within. This world is meant to be harsh. It's your job to over come it.

I think of it like a video game. I'm just here to play the game. The game doesn't play me. You are letting the game play you. It's not suppose to be easy.

What's unattractive about you is your mindset. The minute you decide to stop letting garbage people define who you are will be the minute you find happiness.

Get ya mind right sir. Everything else is just a challenge in the game meant for you to overcome it.

Hold on Pearl!? You getting nikkas smacked out here?!?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

But yeen gotta be in a relationship to do those things

Though I do get your point, jokes aside. Best I can tell you is that experience don't equal skill

Ideally, if two people love and care about each other that type of thing wouldn't be a deal breaker. Hard part is finding that genuine connection not based on pure sexual, monetary, or psychosocial merit

But if you can get a chance, it won't be as difficult as it may seem. Like I said, if you have a genuine connection things will go smoother. Not perfect but it will alleviate some of the pressure

Is that how it worked out for you when you didn't have any dating experience and started at 35?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

He's showing exactly why he's single and nobody wants him. Breh is obsessed with trying to be a victim

I am a victim to the cruelties of women.

Sorry you wouldn't understand you get p*ssy.

Put me on ignore if you don't like it

 

[PartyHeart]

Yea I've gone before but even though I'm lonely I'm still the patriarch of my family.

The last appointment I had I had to cancel because I found myself taking care of 3 of my sisters children by myself.

Now I'm taking care of my father.

I got so much shyt I got to deal with the last thing on my mind is companionship or self help.

I can't pause life to take care of myself.

I do what needs to be done during the day and self medicate at night.

But self care should actually be the first thing on your mind! Self-help/care is key to everything else in your life. You cannot pour from an empty cup.

Like I said, I don’t think your situation is as hopeless as you might think it is just based off of the characteristics and traits you’ve described. I do think unfortunately that you’re now getting a lot of different opinions and suggestions in here, and they’re all coming from so many different vantage points that it’s probably overwhelming and not helpful to you at this point, so I’ll leave you alone and not add to that. But I still leave you with encouragement to make time to speak to a professional and work on your self-esteem issues. Don’t think about anything else, not women not companionship not your family…just focus on working through your self image problems with a therapist. I promise you improvement there will help every other area of your life.

Good luck!

 

[Mandarin Duck]

That's how a majority of all men learned the game. You gotta actively participate in it and take your bumps and bruises. But that's how you know what type of woman you truly want and how to approach and treat her when you encounter her.

That's the part you don't get.

You talking about bumps and bruises that most people experience at 14.

Someone who has already been sexually validated by women can see the fun in dating.

Someone who has not been sexually validated at all dating is not a fun process.

You don't understand that because you have been validated by women.

I don't give a fukk if I sound like a victim because it's something most men will never understand or sympathize with and I really don't care.

I'm telling you what SOME men have to experience at the hands of women.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Hold on Pearl!? You getting nikkas smacked out here?!?

I'm the only member on this site to ever put hands on another member for getting outta order.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I can tell you is that experience don't equal skill

This is an insane lie.

There is no skill in life that does not require experience to develop and get better at.

There's literally people in this thread saying they have to deal with the ups and downs of dating.

Now experience doesn't matter

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I'm the only member on this site to ever put hands on another member for getting outta order.

I've already make it clear I don't get p*ssy, which means I have a lot of free time on my hands.

Post a link to this fukkery.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

I've already make it clear I don't get p*ssy, which means I have a lot of free time on my hands.

Post a link to this fukkery.

You'll have to do a search. Most of the threads have been deleted at this point. Just look up Trill Russell. He's been banned at this point but I think one thread still exists; the main one where I tell the story.

The man was so far up my ass I had to send a cease and desist to his job and from what I hear he still talking about how much he hates me until this very day. Mind you, this man is an actual lawyer doing all the mess he did.

 

[Scaaar]

I'm the only member on this site to ever put hands on another member for getting outta order.

Y'all better stop playing with Pearl on here!!!