Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[The ADD]

Imagine being poor, and before you even have an understanding of what poverty is people are telling you you're always going to be poor.

That's women and them being desirable to me .

What does it matter now? You don’t have a future with women so just focus on other things.

 

[kwazzy100]

Dynamics such as what? And do you think that someone can have relationship experience while still lacking them by 35?

As much as most people like to pretend that women aren't primal beings like men, having very little experience with women is a turn off. He is seen as incompetent and doesn't dominate.

 

[cyndaquil]

It's hilarious how y'all are in here saying it's not a big deal, yet saying lie about it.

Clearly it's an issue for women because if it wasn't you'd wouldn't be telling me to fake it.

Yes lacking confidence is an issue for women. Not necessarily not having been in a relationship before. Confidence is psychological hence you fake it until it becomes natural but it requires resilience.

The issue is women destroyed my self esteem from grade school and that carried into college.

And mind you at no time during any of that period did I express any interest in a woman, yet they went out of their way to let me know I don't have a chance.

Never told a girl I liked her.
Never asked for a date.

But they've let me know more than once I'm not attractive.

OK and there's ugly ass men with women. Do you have anything else going on? A job? Are you in shape? Do you work with what you have? You choose the way in which you carry that trauma with you.

Perspective shift so if you are truly that ugly then shift it then you know that any woman who actually shows interest in you will be more than just skin deep attraction. You'll know she likes you for you and you can avoid those types who don't.

Then the other thing too is that they didn't destroy your self esteem. You let their actions destroy your self esteem.

Allow me to explain:
You placed too much value on the approval of those women that you allowed their thoughts to inhibit your freedom to seek out a mate.
So to avoid those feelings of inadequacy they made you feel you developed an inferiority complex about yourself and withdrew from attempting to date period.
We all have feelings of inadequacy and the proper way to channel that is to use it to continously improve. When you don't then you end up in situations like yours where you'll make excuses after excuse for why you aren't able to get the thing you want. You'll need to change your lifestyle otherwise you'll continue to be unhappy about your relationship status and cope by making up more reasons for why you lack the courage to try.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

What does it matter now? You don’t have a future with women so just focus on other things.

Am I not allowed to express myself in this thread about men struggling with women?

I know these are just losers to guys like you who get women but these threads are therapeutic for me.

You can check my post history and see this is something I visit every now and then. My entire post history doesn't revolve around my lack of being desirable by women and neither does my life.

But I'm going to get this shyt out when I can.

Next time there's a thread about men struggling with women just go ahead and put me on ignore, respectfully because you should know I'm going to put my 2 cents in.

You wouldn't understand being undesirable so I wouldn't expect you to understand the need for men to express themselves.

 

[kwazzy100]

Please enlighten me.

A 35 year old woman is willing to teach a 35 year old man how to kiss?
Hold hands?
Lay in bed together?

Or is the expectation that you should already know how to do those things at 35?

I think he's agreeing with you, bro.
Or just staying clear of a real engagement by being condescending

 

[Child_Of_God]

I'm telling you from life experience, no female with find a 35 year old male with no relationship experience attractive.

Females do not want to waste their time with a man that old with no relationship experience which means again, no woman would find me attractive once they truly know who I am.

Plenty of Millennial and Gen Z females have little to no relationship experiences as well.

 

[cyndaquil]

Plenty of Millennial and Gen Z females have little to no relationship experiences as well.

Dude has an inferiority complex even if he had to leave the country and look overseas he could make it happen.

I mean I'm positive he doesn't look worse than this guy yet he was able to get married

 

[Mandarin Duck]

OK and there's ugly ass men with women. Do you have anything else going on? A job? Are you in shape? Do you work with what you have? You choose the way in which you carry that trauma with you.

Women established me being undesirable prior to me understanding what being desirable even was.

Before I even made any attempt at attracting a woman.

Those experiences have allowed me to realize that having something going on in my life doesn't matter when it comes to attracting women.

Not for all men. I've heard plenty of stories of men getting their life together and women falling in their lap.

I know that has and will not happen for me.

I have a career, I'm in shape(I've posted my thread).

1. None of those things mean you are granted access to women.

2. Women have already established the position I'm supposed to be in when it comes to being desirable by them.

3. I have never hit on a girl, yet I know for a fact they don't find me attractive based on the ways they have gone out of their way to let me know I am not.

 

[The ADD]

Am I not allowed to express myself in this thread about men struggling with women?

I know these are just losers to guys like you who get women but these threads are therapeutic for me.

You can check my post history and see this is something I visit every now and then. My entire post history doesn't revolve around my lack of being desirable by women and neither does my life.

But I'm going to get this shyt out when I can.

Next time there's a thread about men struggling with women just go ahead and put me on ignore, respectfully because you should know I'm going to put my 2 cents in.

You wouldn't understand being undesirable so I wouldn't expect you to understand the need for men to express themselves.

True

Your pain is deep , share it with us

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Those men probably had the luxury of growing up in an environment of people who looked like them, which is why their self esteem wouldn't be effected like mine.

Small farming town, no black people.

And I'm sure when dealing with women they give off a sense of experience.

I hear you.

Idk how familiar you are with my font but I constantly get disrespected on here by men. Constantly. I have a block list that's probably 30/40 deep. They have stalked me, lied on me, tried to hulimate me, called me ugly and attempted to doxx me.

They have called me every name under the sun and have even threatened to raped me and have told me they hoped my father raped me.

And all this has happened on this forum. Some of the very men in this thread have done that. And never once have any of them ever been able to find a shred of evidence that any of what the call me is true.

I made a post a few years back and told them because of the way they treat me I no longer sympathize with their plight nor will I ever advocate for them. I still stand by that.

So I have experience being miss treated by men. Not the same as you but it's there for everyone to see and read.

However, something I realized long ago is that most humans are trash. They're judgements are laughable. The same dude calling me a slut or ugly is dumber than a box of rocks and will never have or accomplish anything.

Nothing any of these people have wished on me has ever come true. NOTHING. They have no power. They're literally nothing. And the one man on here who thought he was going to humble me got the shyt smack out of him and sent running out the club crying.

So I could cry in the corner because a bunch of powerless losers who have never had an original thought think I'm less than...

Or...

I just do what I do and live my life happily. I use it as inspiration. Everytime someone insults me I know it's because I made them feel like the shyt they are. I respond by further roasting them, and then I tell them that they're life and their opinion is meaningless, and then I blocked them to prove it.

Life is mindset. If you wanna be sad then you'll be sad. If you wanna be a loser then that's what you are.

The minute you decide life is better than it is.

The point of this reality is to realize that true validation comes from within. This world is meant to be harsh. It's your job to over come it.

I think of it like a video game. I'm just here to play the game. The game doesn't play me. You are letting the game play you. It's not suppose to be easy.

What's unattractive about you is your mindset. The minute you decide to stop letting garbage people define who you are will be the minute you find happiness.

Get ya mind right sir. Everything else is just a challenge in the game meant for you to overcome it.

 

[Child_Of_God]

Dude has an inferiority complex even if he had to leave the country and look overseas he could make it happen.

I mean I'm positive he doesn't look worse than this guy yet he was able to get married

Did dude get dropped on his face as a baby or something?

 

[Mandarin Duck]

True

Your pain is deep , share it with us

You start off saying this

I’m not speaking down to you

Then end up being condescending.

I never disrespected you once in this back and forth.

 

[The ADD]

You start off saying this

Then end up being condescending.

I never disrespected you once in this back and forth.

Tupac reference



I’m being serious. You need to vent, this is the thread to do it

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Plenty of Millennial and Gen Z females have little to no relationship experiences as well.

What do you have to back this up other than how you feel?

I'm telling you as a 35 year old man who's been on dates women don't want to deal with that shyt and you telling me you think there's enough women who do.

They don't.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Tupac reference



I’m being serious. You need to vent, this is the thread to do it

You have a wife.

Go spend time with her instead of us who have nothing better to do.