Recent study finds that 60% of men under 30 are single due to social media and the internet

[The ADD]

Whatever exception you've created in your head does not change the rule that women do not want to deal with a 35 year old inexperienced man.

Actually you are correct and a great testament to that fact.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Dynamics such as what? And do you think that someone can have relationship experience while still lacking them by 35?

Of course they can.

I don't think by 35 a person has everything needed for a relationship figured out.

But I do think the fact that a person at 35 has never been in a relationship is not going to be able to be in one.

I'm talking about simple things like holding a woman's hand, kissing, showing affection. Imagine a man who's never done these things.

A woman at 35 is tryna to figure out things bigger than holding hands and kissing.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Actually you are correct and a great testament to that fact.

Please enlighten me.

A 35 year old woman is willing to teach a 35 year old man how to kiss?
Hold hands?
Lay in bed together?

Or is the expectation that you should already know how to do those things at 35?

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

Women decided that chapter for me.

I gave examples of me trying to interact with women for school and they refused to talk to me.

I wasn't hitting on them.

I simply existed and tried to say hi at an orientation that we were asked to do.

And this was college, not junior high.

Women have treated me like a monster for existing, not for being some fat creepy weirdo that tried to hit on them.

How is a person supposed to feel about themselves being treating like less than human by women for not even doing anything?

I work with some extremely unattractive, ashy men who will come to work not smelling the best. They have women and children which is absolutely crazy y to me.

One guy is shorter than me, never washes his face, has a ton of acne and always has white shyt on the corners of his mouth. I literally had his ex try to come and get him fired. The bytch was stalking him. And dude moves like a creepy spy. I think he is a weirdo.

I promise you you are not too unattractive.

 

[The ADD]

Please enlighten me.

A 35 year old woman is willing to teach a 35 year old man how to kiss?
Hold hands?
Lay in bed together?

Or is the expectation that you should already know how to do those things at 35?

I don’t understand the question. Women do not want to deal with a 35 year old inexperienced man.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

I work with some extremely unattractive, ashy men who will come to work not smelling the best. They have women and children which is absolutely crazy y to me.

One guy is shorter than me, never washes his face, has a ton of acne and always has white shyt on the corners of his mouth. I literally had his ex try to come and get him fired. The bytch was stalking him. And dude moves like a creepy spy. I think he is a weirdo.

I promise you you are not too unattractive.

Those men probably had the luxury of growing up in an environment of people who looked like them, which is why their self esteem wouldn't be effected like mine.

Small farming town, no black people.

And I'm sure when dealing with women they give off a sense of experience.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Women do not want to deal with a 35 year old inexperienced man.

It took far too long for you to admit this.

 

[™BlackPearl The Empress™]

No.

Once again, there is not a woman on this planet who was disrespected by men since childhood so much she lost her virginity to a male prostitute, and continued to feel sexually worthless to the opposite sex.

Absolutely not.

Wait. Did you lose your virginity to a man?

 

[The ADD]

It took far too long for you to admit this.

But we made it my mallard

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Wait. Did you lose your virginity to a man?

No

When posters in here are saying "There's women out there that's just like you"

I'm saying there's no woman out there who has the same experiences as me.

So to compare that I'm saying show me a woman who felt so bad about her self esteem she choose to lose her virginity to a male prostitute the same way I felt so bad about my self esteem I lost my virginity to a female prostitute.

 

[cyndaquil]

Whatever exception you've created in your head does not change the rule that women do not want to deal with a 35 year old inexperienced man.

You're looking at it from the wrong perspective. A 35 year old man with no previous relationship baggage and is moldable is actually what some of these women want. It's an advantage in that aspect. Fake it til you make it. You mention not knowing how to hold hands, kiss etc. You can still learn that stuff provided you go on dates. Seems the issue isn't that you never learned how to be in a relationship but rather you gave up and now blame your inability to be with a woman on never having been in a relationship. Tbh you sound like you're lacking courage.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

You're looking at it from the wrong perspective. A 35 year old man with no previous relationship baggage and is moldable is actually what some of these women want. It's an advantage in that aspect. Fake it til you make it. You mention not knowing how to hold hands, kiss etc. You can still learn that stuff provided you go on dates. Seems the issue isn't that you never learned how to be in a relationship but rather you gave up and now blame your inability to be with a woman on never having been in a relationship. Tbh you sound like you're lacking courage.

It's hilarious how y'all are in here saying it's not a big deal, yet saying lie about it.

Clearly it's an issue for women because if it wasn't you'd wouldn't be telling me to fake it.

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Seems the issue isn't that you never learned how to be in a relationship

The issue is women destroyed my self esteem from grade school and that carried into college.

And mind you at no time during any of that period did I express any interest in a woman, yet they went out of their way to let me know I don't have a chance.

Never told a girl I liked her.
Never asked for a date.

But they've let me know more than once I'm not attractive.

 

[The ADD]

The issue is women destroyed my self esteem from grade school and that carried into college.

And mind you at no time during any of that period did I express any interest in a woman, yet they went out of their way to let me know I don't have a chance.

Never told a girl I liked her.
Never asked for a date.

But they've let me know more than once I'm not attractive.

Gotta let it slide off like water off a ducks back……

 

[Mandarin Duck]

Gotta let it slide off like water off a ducks back……

Imagine being poor, and before you even have an understanding of what poverty is people are telling you you're always going to be poor.

That's women and them being desirable to me .