In a society that says it values monogamy, how can ~60% of men be single yet only ~30% of women are single!?

It's almost as if women have an easier time getting men!? Not only that but it also seems like the ~70% of attached women are attached to the ~40% of attached men!?
I'm sure there's rule that the red pill/manosphere stated that women seek the most high status men in any society and situation!?
I believe they split it into a certain ratio!? 75/25? 90/10? It eludes me.

The red pill/manosphere called it and stats are backing it up. The Anti red pill/manosphere have shown repeatedly for the past couple of years that they're out of touch with society.