Do you like the benefits of being a man in this society? They are inseparable from its pitfalls.Its disheartening knowing that the only advice and help you will get is "man up" or "yeah good luck with that" Do you agree?
Do you like the benefits of being a man in this society? They are inseparable from its pitfalls.Its disheartening knowing that the only advice and help you will get is "man up" or "yeah good luck with that" Do you agree?
this the exact problem right here brehsIt's of your own doing really. You all cling to an idea of masculinity that can do nothing, but produce these kinds of results. Then when women want more of the burden we get called "feminist man hating dyke bytches". If you guys let go of that idea of masculinity you'll truly be much happier.
Do you like the benefits of being a man in this society? They are inseparable from its pitfalls.
exactly!Why didn't you answer his question?
I did. You cannot complain about the bad stuff while unabashedly enjoying the good stuff. I have always thought that it was silly for black males to cling to patriarchy in a system of white supremacy where they were set up to fail to reach the height of it (patriarchy).Why didn't you answer his question?
Do you like the benefits of being a woman in this society? They are inseparable from its pitfalls.Do you like the benefits of being a man in this society? They are inseparable from its pitfalls.
exactly!
that's a complete and utter dismissal of what people are saying
and ironically it simultaneously proves ebro's point 100%
Yes, I do. Ebro expressed a want for change, and really the only way I see that happening for males is for them to give up this current definition of masculinity and to shuck the societal programming. If you are a conscious black then you've already done that in a way. The current definition breeds these feelings of inadequacy. You cannot escape that if you continue to cling to it. That's all I'm saying. I'm not dismissing your problems. I'm acknowledging that they exist, and I'm examining what they are the direct result of.Do you like the benefits of being a woman in this society? They are inseparable from its pitfalls.
You see how that sounds?
I did. You cannot complain about the bad stuff while unabashedly enjoying the good stuff. I have always thought that it was silly for black males to cling to patriarchy in a system of white supremacy where they were set up to fail to reach the height of it (patriarchy).
that's just a piss poor response either way. holding me responsible for the fact that other men enjoy patriarchy? senseless.1. No, you didn't . The question was do YOU agree that it would be disheartening to spill your issues out to someone
and all the give you is "man up" or "good luck with that"?
You didn't answer that.
2. Someone can ABSOLUTELY complain about the vices of something while extolling the virtues of it.
It happens all the time. You ever been on Yelp? lol
If you are sitting around hoping women
Alright then. Have a nice night.Yes, I do. Ebro expressed a want for change, and really the only way I see that happening for males is for them to give up this current definition of masculinity and to shuck the societal programming. If you are a conscious black then you've already done that in a way. The current definition breeds these feelings of inadequacy. You cannot escape that if you continue to cling to it. That's all I'm saying. I'm not dismissing your problems. I'm acknowledging that they exist, and I'm examining what they are the direct result of.
Yes, it is probably disheartening, but it's a side effect of masculinity. This is one of your manly outlets. I will no longer "derail" it.1. No, you didn't . The question was do YOU agree that it would be disheartening to spill your issues out to someone
and all the give you is "man up" or "good luck with that"?
You didn't answer that.
2. Someone can ABSOLUTELY complain about the vices of something while extolling the virtues of it.
It happens all the time. You ever been on Yelp? lol
Stop.
This isn't even about women. This is general.
NOBODY cares about your chit but YOU.