Because vulnerability will allow your weakness to be exposed and once you do that, they will use it on you in the future. My boy sobbed and sniffling after his mother died, dude went to his girl for support and she was disgusted with him. Straight up. She was used to him being a man and the one time dude was vulnerable, she wasn't having it.
"Man up and stop crying I can't don't like seeing grown ass men cry like girls" Was her exact words.
After they broke up she kept clowning him on that shyt.
And your boy didn’t give her that two piece?