Rap Sh!t star Aida Osman was coerced out of coochie by "Wild N Out" star, she was only 22 yrs old!

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I believe diddy was being sued for rape and he didn't even physically do the act, but the pressure of his status forced cassie to have sex with multiple hired male strippers under his watch. Regardless of what happened, he's being labelled a rapist and sexual deviant. If we want to protect ourselves we gotta adapt to these new situations

that's not accurate.

"132. After dinner, Mr. Combs and Ms. Ventura returned to Ms. Ventura’s home, which was paid for by Mr. Combs. 133. Mr. Combs forced himself into her apartment and tried to kiss Ms. Ventura. She told him to stop and attempted to push him away. 134. Mr. Combs then forcibly pulled off Ms. Ventura’s clothing and unbuckled his belt. He proceeded to rape Ms. Ventura while she repeatedly said “no” and tried to push him away."


if you want to protect yourselves, don't rape people.
 

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the way she actually describes it does sound off, if that's how it went down.

he followed her to her place and wasn't even flirtatious about it, just said "oh hey I want some coffee so im coming with you" and then probably switched up when they were alone. Easy to see to why she'd feel some kind of way, and then you get into the whole situation with a woman not feeling comfortable rejecting a man alone in case shyt goes crazy


THAT scenario is a lot of different than being flirtatious and and talking about "coffee" when you're both flirting and know what the real deal is.
nikka playing mental gymnastics to justify this dumb shyt lmao
 

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I believe diddy was being sued for rape and he didn't even physically do the act, but the pressure of his status forced cassie to have sex with multiple hired male strippers under his watch. Regardless of what happened, he's being labelled a rapist and sexual deviant. If we want to protect ourselves we gotta adapt to these new situations
Thats duress. If you establish "Consent or else" that aint real consent. He is accused of beating and threatening her and others. And she worked for him at some point I do believe. That is in no way comparable or applicable to your average cat shooting his shot without threats or violence or anything to hold over her head.
 

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Thats duress. If you establish "Consent or else" that aint real consent. He is accused of beating and threatening her and others. And she worked for him at some point I do believe. That is in no way comparable or applicable to your average cat shooting his shot without threats or violence or anything to hold over her head.
Well the above posters clarified to me what actually happened. I agree with what you are saying, but still, it's getting to the point where you don't even wanna stand near that open flame, gen Z brehs being accused of rape on social media from women they just spat game to and being labelled scum these days. Athletes have lost their position for less
 

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I don't think it's about a woman being an "adult" but acknowledging the double standard that women are just more impressionable and eager to please despite their own wishes.
When I was growing up it was “women were more mature” now its when they're damn near 30 they’re more impressionable and eager to please?

I hope people understand that young men also fall for bullshyt at young ages as well (usually involving money, used cars, work/wages) but it’s never labeled as “coercion” or anything close to that

It’s a human thing if anything. If you have something of value, usually people will try to take advantage of it.

All I’m saying is, I’m sure at that age this woman had dealt with multiple men before, unless she lived a completely sheltered life (and as a rapper?)

If she had said no or had any threats towards her and her well being that forced her decision then Iwould understand.

Being talked/laughed out of your draws though :beli:
 

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the coli: "women are dumb for not knowing men will take advantage of them if given the opportunity"

also the coli: "these modern females hate men and claim the men aint shyt and it's because of feminism"
The problem with this convo is that it always devolves into taking one side or the other rather than keepng it all the way 100. Are there men saying what you said? Yes. Just like there are women saying "I am independent/boss/grown ass woman and I can take care of myself and do what I want" in one breath and then in another "I was only 47 yrs old how was I to know that a man might try something with me if given the opportunity? Why is MY wellbeing all MY responsibility?"

There is no excuse for rape or any coercive tactics. Men should respect women and their boundaries. Any sex should be agreed upon explicitly by both parties. There is also no excuse for lumping thirst, awkwardness, or just genuinely shooting your shot with someone that wasn't interested in with rape or coercion just because you either made a decision you regret or felt a certain way. Women gotta establish boundaries and protect themselves.
 

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Some women are flat out dumb and naive.

I remember being in college and my home girl had her friend from home over at her dorm. So we're talking and there seemed to be some chemistry there so I invite her to my room at like 4 am. I'm obviously trying to see if something can go down but she's completely oblivious. I'm very direct, I don't cross any boundaries and I'm not going to coerce anyone to do anything so I ended up kicking her out.......and she was appalled that I told her she wasn't welcome in my spot and that she should go. Her own friend didn't even understand why she would come to my room at time of the night if she wasn't down.

Like I'm not inviting you to my room at 4 am to play checkers.
 

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She's 22...see...MeToo gave women the right to retroactively cry sexual abuse after the act is over for decades....
 

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Some women are flat out dumb and naive.

I remember being in college and my home girl had her friend from home over at her dorm. So we're talking and there seemed to be some chemistry there so I invite her to my room at like 4 am. I'm obviously trying to see if something can go down but she's completely oblivious. I'm very direct, I don't cross any boundaries and I'm not going to coerce anyone to do anything so I ended up kicking her out.......and she was appalled that I told her she wasn't welcome in my spot and that she should go. Her own friend didn't even understand why she would come to my room at time of the night if she wasn't down.

Like I'm not inviting you to my room at 4 am to play checkers.
She was playing chess:troll:
 
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