thanks for the pointers
follow up Q: what should i search (keywords) to find a program that as you say hits every muslce group directly twice a week. i def do feel like i could do bench, squat, etc etc more than once a week. i feel like im motivated to find something better.
I told you the program start with.
@Son Goku is the one who guided me to the light. You say it's a "simple program", there is a reason why:
You think you know how to over head press...........

you don't.
You think you know how to bench press.........

you don't
You think you know how to deadlift.... .. .. .

you don't
You think you know how to SQUAT.........

.guess what I'm gonna say?. ...........

you don't
Starting with SL 5x5 provides for you the opportunity to learn how to do those 4 compound lifts with the right form and learn how to get the right muscle stimulation for the corresponding muscles.
Sure you can "lift" things, we can all "lift" things, but there is a big difference between doing it correctly and not.......not will have you with fried ligaments, bulging discs, and messed up joints. (shout out
@Gully Bull 
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Don't fall for the misnomer of thinking "oh it is just lifting heavy things how hard could it be?", we all fall for it at the start, but it is not the case.
So come...... come to the Dark Side......
You say you just trying to lose weight, but after a few months when you see the changes, one day you will be walking down the street and a cute broad looks at you, but then she does a double take you will be addicted.....
The Whey beckons...... . .
