Don't have sex with a guy unless you really know him (ie makes sure their are no other chicks, double life, lowkey jumpoffs).
Quick Little Gems on Dealing with Men Thread
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Good looking ladies.
ExpensiveThrillz
Head In The Cloudz
gnarly...
don't think you can change a man (his ways, his style, etc) to fit what you think he should be like
don't try and mask your true self either
let him clearly see you w/ no enhancements or fillers (makeup, weave, pushup bra's, etc)
be cautious if he wants you to share every intimate detail about yourself but hesitates to do the same...but also be cautious if he wants to dump his entire life story on your on the first date
don't be dikkmatized...seek a man that's good for you both in and outta the bed...not just in it
-Never give a man money. No matter what for any purpose. (Sorry)
-If he ever utters "YOLO"...LEAVE!! No questions asked
-Look at how he handles his money. If his car is rimmed out but his phone is ringing off the hook from debt collectors, that is a red flag
-Don't date a man with children, if you don't have any yourself.
-No sex until he's been tested for diseases...TWICE!! All diseases. a full fukking blood test from his doctor.
-If he ever utters "YOLO"...LEAVE!! No questions asked
-Look at how he handles his money. If his car is rimmed out but his phone is ringing off the hook from debt collectors, that is a red flag
-Don't date a man with children, if you don't have any yourself.
-No sex until he's been tested for diseases...TWICE!! All diseases. a full fukking blood test from his doctor.
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malbaker86
Gators
Here's some advice, most men are JUST like females; wanting attention (look at the other thread), loving the little things done for them, and we like a girl who's confident.
If HE isn't the one mentioning wanting to introduce your to his parents and peeps after a month, I wouldn't say be weary but.....but weary lol
If HE isn't the one mentioning wanting to introduce your to his parents and peeps after a month, I wouldn't say be weary but.....but weary lol
- Don't date a man that wears fitteds, snapbacks or any of them shyts. I know some of them dudes be lookingbut you must resist!
9/10 he ain't no good and/or he has a funny shaped head he's hiding.
Has not failed me yet!!
Just realized I rarely wear hats.. Damn, does this mean ladies see me as a lame
Anyways, *In*.
Petty Crocker
Looking GREAT in my 30s
5 STARS POS REP..AND I HAVENT EVEN READ THE THREAD YET
eta: Its alot of men posting in here already..why? Yall got a thread to stalk...Can we live?
eta: Its alot of men posting in here already..why? Yall got a thread to stalk...Can we live?
Petty Crocker
Looking GREAT in my 30s
-Watch how he talks to/treats his mother
- It is your right as a woman to expect that a man will pay for dinner or whatever else in exchange for your time
-A man always wants something..ALWAYS.
A) If you are willing to sleep with him
B) what will it take for you to sleep with him
-never give in easily..set standards and requirements from the moment you open your mouth
- If his conversation is always superficial and never goes beyond the surface, he's not interested
- It is your right as a woman to expect that a man will pay for dinner or whatever else in exchange for your time
-A man always wants something..ALWAYS.
A) If you are willing to sleep with him
B) what will it take for you to sleep with him
-never give in easily..set standards and requirements from the moment you open your mouth
- If his conversation is always superficial and never goes beyond the surface, he's not interested
Petty Crocker
Looking GREAT in my 30s
Keep an emergency stash when you go out with a dude, mines is usually $100 which is enough to pay for my dinner and if he acts an ass I have cab fare to get home.
Avoid the flirters aka dudes who constantly seek attention from other women. They usually keep a stable of "new female friends" whom they always talk to, text, or go hang out with. They might not fukk em but its still disrespectful.
It is okay to ask a guy out on a date. He might even pay for it (they usually do when I ask out
unless I know its something they can't afford so since I recommended the place I'll pay). For example I wanted to see the Bodies Exhibit at the museum but it was $40+ for me and my date. I paid for our tickets but he made a picnic lunch for us to eat afterwards.