Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

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Nah, we didn’t date, but messaged a lot over time. I suggested we meet up and she said she’d be busy l moving, but agreed to dinner. But now says she’s too busy.

It doesn’t matter anymore. Things aren’t going well for me right now, so it would’ve been nice.
You have to be honest with yourself. If you didn’t have the vibe that she was interested then it was a long shot anyway.

From what you are saying it sounds like yall were “cool” but nothing much more than that.
 

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These sounds like more like people your were cool with in the moment (especially on a college campus) then long term friends.
This is years and years after college, I’m old. It was a coding bootcamp.

I fully admit that the first girl is someone I kept in touch with to try to smash at a later date. But the second girl, we were friends.
 

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This is years and years after college, I’m old. It was a coding bootcamp.

I fully admit that the first girl is someone I kept in touch with to try to smash at a later date. But the second girl, we were friends.
I mean it happens. There are levels to friendship, some are deeper than others.

You didn’t do anything wrong….tis life
 

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stop giving hoes free attention lmfao. I`m not keeping in touch with any women I haven't slept with or planning the link up in which we know we both sleeping together. Anything else maybe random social media comments at best on a funny meme or responding to them commenting on my stuff, but none of that chat shyt,.

Yep. Been there before.

Cut the pen pal ish.

“Hit me back when you’re settled” leave it at that. If she wants to see you she will. All the free attention, texting, phone calls will keep you in that position.
 

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These sounds like more like people your were cool with in the moment (especially on a college campus) then long term friends.

yeah most women and men can't be friends. Once I got married I stopped talking to all my "friends"

the crazy thing is still a bunch of dudes messaging that's how desperate some men are nowadays
 

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yeah most women and men can't be friends. Once I got married I stopped talking to all my "friends"


the crazy thing is still a bunch of dudes messaging that's how desperate some men are nowadays
I’ve thought for a while that people use the term friends too loosely or don’t recognize that friendship has levels.

I’ve got 4 pretty close female friends but we go back a long time and met throughout professional lives.
 

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bytch goofy as hell. Talking about “not looking for hookups” WHILE pregnant about to give birth in a month :dwillhuh:

Should’ve thought about that before you let a nikka skeet in you raw now you a single mom :skip:

And she dead ass serious too. Priorities all fukked up smh. Scientists need to do a brain study on today’s women cause they apparently live in a whole different reality. And dating apps are filled with this delusional bullshyt.
 

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bytch goofy as hell. Talking about “not looking for hookups” WHILE pregnant about to give birth in a month :dwillhuh:

Should’ve thought about that before you let a nikka skeet in you raw now you a single mom :skip:

And she dead ass serious too. Priorities all fukked up smh. Scientists need to do a brain study on today’s women cause they apparently live in a whole different reality. And dating apps are filled with this delusional bullshyt.

Feels like we're in Bizarro World :francis:
 
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