I ain’t tryna be a monk
But 6 months for me is like a year in the hyperbolic time chamber. Get fitter, richer, credit score goes up, business expands, etc.
Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women
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But 6 months for me is like a year in the hyperbolic time chamber. Get fitter, richer, credit score goes up, business expands, etc.
You can’t do that in the presence of women?I ain’t tryna be a monk
But 6 months for me is like a year in the hyperbolic time chamber. Get fitter, richer, credit score goes up, business expands, etc.
Not fukking 3-5 times a week and dealing with the BS that comes with it
WoofNot fukking 3-5 times a week and dealing with the BS that comes with it
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It was ugly out here for a while. Just fine hoes, meaningless sex, intolerable company, and bad af women I was coming across.
Then I met one, fine af, top 2 women personalities I've ever met (and only probably saying that cause I'm reluctant to admit otherwise) and we're ROCKING.
She was adamant about not coming to her house in the beginning and I played the same role. We hung out like 6 times in the first 12 days after actually kicking it the first time. Knew of each other prior.
I loved her look, standards, conversation, morals, body, personality how in sync we were in all that. Getting TOO drunk with her early on had me fighting to keep her in my life after embarrassing displays
Overcame BS, finally invited her over - folded her up and shyt got stronger. Around 3 months I told her I wanted you be exclusive - wild cause all the time as spent and how things we're going, screamed exclusive. ( felt the need to verbalize cause I started rejecting hoes)
I don't when, where or why but now - I'm indifferent af. Possibly cause we work together
and I was used to seeing her being the one everybody wanted and that changed once everybody went to WFH and I saw her busted for like a month straight. I wish I wasn't shallow cause wtf, she checks all boxes. To the point, I wasn't even checking for other women.
Now here we are wrapping up month 4 and idk. And it might not even be her. I'm getting better, these hoes letting me know I'm fine - the shots I shoot don't miss. I got women throwing themselves at me and I'm like damn - do I wanna continue the life I've lived my whole life or do I want to give this situation an honest attempt.
Took shawty to a game tonight and can honestly say this the first time I didn't enjoy being in her presence. I'm an a$$hole so when I'm upset I'm rude and condescending but with her, I noticed I shut down to prevent further damage. That's what happened tonight - through the game, car ride all that...silence.
Went to a bar, after that... bartender shooting and she half naked. I'm like do I really wanna leave this lifestyle. Talk to me
Then I met one, fine af, top 2 women personalities I've ever met (and only probably saying that cause I'm reluctant to admit otherwise) and we're ROCKING.
She was adamant about not coming to her house in the beginning and I played the same role. We hung out like 6 times in the first 12 days after actually kicking it the first time. Knew of each other prior.
I loved her look, standards, conversation, morals, body, personality how in sync we were in all that. Getting TOO drunk with her early on had me fighting to keep her in my life after embarrassing displays
Overcame BS, finally invited her over - folded her up and shyt got stronger. Around 3 months I told her I wanted you be exclusive - wild cause all the time as spent and how things we're going, screamed exclusive. ( felt the need to verbalize cause I started rejecting hoes)
I don't when, where or why but now - I'm indifferent af. Possibly cause we work together
and I was used to seeing her being the one everybody wanted and that changed once everybody went to WFH and I saw her busted for like a month straight. I wish I wasn't shallow cause wtf, she checks all boxes. To the point, I wasn't even checking for other women.Now here we are wrapping up month 4 and idk. And it might not even be her. I'm getting better, these hoes letting me know I'm fine - the shots I shoot don't miss. I got women throwing themselves at me and I'm like damn - do I wanna continue the life I've lived my whole life or do I want to give this situation an honest attempt.
Took shawty to a game tonight and can honestly say this the first time I didn't enjoy being in her presence. I'm an a$$hole so when I'm upset I'm rude and condescending but with her, I noticed I shut down to prevent further damage. That's what happened tonight - through the game, car ride all that...silence.
Went to a bar, after that... bartender shooting and she half naked. I'm like do I really wanna leave this lifestyle. Talk to me
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Breh, apart from summer when's the best time to visit Vancouver? I been hearing some great things about your city.
Breh, apart from summer when's the best time to visit Vancouver? I been hearing some great things about your city.
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Breh, apart from summer when's the best time to visit Vancouver? I been hearing some great things about your city.
Apart from summer. I'd say, Autumn leading up to Christmas. The first few months of the year, are too snowy and then too rainy here.
The rain really took the piss this year.
Doesn’t seem like you care for her much anymoreIt was ugly out here for a while. Just fine hoes, meaningless sex, intolerable company, and bad af women I was coming across.
Then I met one, fine af, top 2 women personalities I've ever met (and only probably saying that cause I'm reluctant to admit otherwise) and we're ROCKING.
She was adamant about not coming to her house in the beginning and I played the same role. We hung out like 6 times in the first 12 days after actually kicking it the first time. Knew of each other prior.
I loved her look, standards, conversation, morals, body, personality how in sync we were in all that. Getting TOO drunk with her early on had me fighting to keep her in my life after embarrassing displays
Overcame BS, finally invited her over - folded her up and shyt got stronger. Around 3 months I told her I wanted you be exclusive - wild cause all the time as spent and how things we're going, screamed exclusive. ( felt the need to verbalize cause I started rejecting hoes)
I don't when, where or why but now - I'm indifferent af. Possibly cause we work together
Now here we are wrapping up month 4 and idk. And it might not even be her. I'm getting better, these hoes letting me know I'm fine - the shots I shoot don't miss. I got women throwing themselves at me and I'm like damn - do I wanna continue the life I've lived my whole life or do I want to give this situation an honest attempt.
Took shawty to a game tonight and can honestly say this the first time I didn't enjoy being in her presence. I'm an a$$hole so when I'm upset I'm rude and condescending but with her, I noticed I shut down to prevent further damage. That's what happened tonight - through the game, car ride all that...silence.
Went to a bar, after that... bartender shooting and she half naked. I'm like do I really wanna leave this lifestyle. Talk to me
End it
Bro it’s not worth it ..you don’t wanna be 50 doing the same thing you were doing at 20 soIt was ugly out here for a while. Just fine hoes, meaningless sex, intolerable company, and bad af women I was coming across.
Then I met one, fine af, top 2 women personalities I've ever met (and only probably saying that cause I'm reluctant to admit otherwise) and we're ROCKING.
She was adamant about not coming to her house in the beginning and I played the same role. We hung out like 6 times in the first 12 days after actually kicking it the first time. Knew of each other prior.
I loved her look, standards, conversation, morals, body, personality how in sync we were in all that. Getting TOO drunk with her early on had me fighting to keep her in my life after embarrassing displays
Overcame BS, finally invited her over - folded her up and shyt got stronger. Around 3 months I told her I wanted you be exclusive - wild cause all the time as spent and how things we're going, screamed exclusive. ( felt the need to verbalize cause I started rejecting hoes)
I don't when, where or why but now - I'm indifferent af. Possibly cause we work together
Now here we are wrapping up month 4 and idk. And it might not even be her. I'm getting better, these hoes letting me know I'm fine - the shots I shoot don't miss. I got women throwing themselves at me and I'm like damn - do I wanna continue the life I've lived my whole life or do I want to give this situation an honest attempt.
Took shawty to a game tonight and can honestly say this the first time I didn't enjoy being in her presence. I'm an a$$hole so when I'm upset I'm rude and condescending but with her, I noticed I shut down to prevent further damage. That's what happened tonight - through the game, car ride all that...silence.
Went to a bar, after that... bartender shooting and she half naked. I'm like do I really wanna leave this lifestyle. Talk to me
Keep her
It was ugly out here for a while. Just fine hoes, meaningless sex, intolerable company, and bad af women I was coming across.
Then I met one, fine af, top 2 women personalities I've ever met (and only probably saying that cause I'm reluctant to admit otherwise) and we're ROCKING.
She was adamant about not coming to her house in the beginning and I played the same role. We hung out like 6 times in the first 12 days after actually kicking it the first time. Knew of each other prior.
I loved her look, standards, conversation, morals, body, personality how in sync we were in all that. Getting TOO drunk with her early on had me fighting to keep her in my life after embarrassing displays
Overcame BS, finally invited her over - folded her up and shyt got stronger. Around 3 months I told her I wanted you be exclusive - wild cause all the time as spent and how things we're going, screamed exclusive. ( felt the need to verbalize cause I started rejecting hoes)
I don't when, where or why but now - I'm indifferent af. Possibly cause we work together
Now here we are wrapping up month 4 and idk. And it might not even be her. I'm getting better, these hoes letting me know I'm fine - the shots I shoot don't miss. I got women throwing themselves at me and I'm like damn - do I wanna continue the life I've lived my whole life or do I want to give this situation an honest attempt.
Took shawty to a game tonight and can honestly say this the first time I didn't enjoy being in her presence. I'm an a$$hole so when I'm upset I'm rude and condescending but with her, I noticed I shut down to prevent further damage. That's what happened tonight - through the game, car ride all that...silence.
Went to a bar, after that... bartender shooting and she half naked. I'm like do I really wanna leave this lifestyle. Talk to me
I say this out of breh to breh love.
Seek therapy.
If you find yourself welling up with animous towards a loved one with no discernable reason why.
I would def talk to a MALE psychologist on why and get to the root of it.
You gon be 50 looking at yourself like an idiot. Solid women are hard to come by
There are some concepts like self sabotage you may want to read about it, and get some context
There's also the idea that traditional relationships, and all relationships, friendships, whatever, have a cycle, that doesn't have to be predictable, but there is always going to be an easing from the "high", the intensity of ANYTHING pleasurable, especially something as intoxicating as love, lust, strong emotional connection.
adding on that, generally speaking, most people starts to mirror kind of a marriage like state after 6 months, approx, it's what we are taught socially. And that element of domesticity, toothbrushes and sleeping same bed together, a lot of convos start to revolve around "what do you want for dinner" (instead of flirting/whose house do we meet up at, coming over at midnight and having sex for hours) starts to feel a little more safe, as in this person isn't going to ghost you, but also starts to feel a little stalled? or a little smothering.
To me, you either accept that, and work at it, keep things exciting, traveling, push each other sexually, or leave it, but also realize it will not be THAT different with another person, relatively speaking. That cycle will reveal itself again.
or you kind of participate LESS in that dynamic but that's like breaking from traditional norms, which isn't easy or socially accepted at all.
There's also the idea that traditional relationships, and all relationships, friendships, whatever, have a cycle, that doesn't have to be predictable, but there is always going to be an easing from the "high", the intensity of ANYTHING pleasurable, especially something as intoxicating as love, lust, strong emotional connection.
adding on that, generally speaking, most people starts to mirror kind of a marriage like state after 6 months, approx, it's what we are taught socially. And that element of domesticity, toothbrushes and sleeping same bed together, a lot of convos start to revolve around "what do you want for dinner" (instead of flirting/whose house do we meet up at, coming over at midnight and having sex for hours) starts to feel a little more safe, as in this person isn't going to ghost you, but also starts to feel a little stalled? or a little smothering.
To me, you either accept that, and work at it, keep things exciting, traveling, push each other sexually, or leave it, but also realize it will not be THAT different with another person, relatively speaking. That cycle will reveal itself again.
or you kind of participate LESS in that dynamic but that's like breaking from traditional norms, which isn't easy or socially accepted at all.
Here's the question.
You black.
You live in the states.
You have a social life and done been around.
Are ESL chicks better than native speakers?
I ain't ask about race for you Umar devotees - just English abilities. And I'ma include Naija females on the ESL side (
)
On the one hand, communication is basic.
On the other hand, communication is basic.
What say you?
You black.
You live in the states.
You have a social life and done been around.
Are ESL chicks better than native speakers?
I ain't ask about race for you Umar devotees - just English abilities. And I'ma include Naija females on the ESL side (
)On the one hand, communication is basic.
On the other hand, communication is basic.
What say you?
Mandarin Duck
Majestic and Highfalutin
Women are a$$holes.
I'm training this new girl in my department and she was mad cool. Real talkative.
Another breh will stop by and spark a Convo with me for a lil bit. He tried to talk to her and she was dry as fukk. Like he wasn't even pressing her but she was giving him one word answers. It just made me feel kinda irritated that women be having that "ugh don't talk to me" arrogance and that energy wasn't even for me.
I'm training this new girl in my department and she was mad cool. Real talkative.
Another breh will stop by and spark a Convo with me for a lil bit. He tried to talk to her and she was dry as fukk. Like he wasn't even pressing her but she was giving him one word answers. It just made me feel kinda irritated that women be having that "ugh don't talk to me" arrogance and that energy wasn't even for me.
Women are a$$holes.
I'm training this new girl in my department and she was mad cool. Real talkative.
Another breh will stop by and spark a Convo with me for a lil bit. He tried to talk to her and she was dry as fukk. Like he wasn't even pressing her but she was giving him one word answers. It just made me feel kinda irritated that women be having that "ugh don't talk to me" arrogance and that energy wasn't even for me.
We shoulda neva let them in the work force, lol.