Yup and lets not forget the more you chit chat back and forth the more you become a "friend", or the more you might say something that may screw it up. Oh you're a liberal oh you're not a animal person, oh you don't like this or that.
I remember a few months ago before I travelled I was talking to this chick. Got her number and everything this chick literally lived a few minutes from me, I said we should meet up its a monday, this chick is like can we meet next friday. I just said sure and deleted her number never even followed up again.
Like ima sit around and text you for two friggin weeks before we meet when you're just around the corner yeah right. These chicks really think I was born yesterday.
Why would that screw it up? This is pertinent information that needs to be disclosed and addressed ASAP
if I'm talking to a dime and she's the baddest dime I've ever met and then she informs me she's a repug it's bushes
She can have the fattest ass but if she's a trump supporter I'm out
That's just one example.
My ex wife became a born again Christian halfway into our marriage. I *thought* we could live and let live, as in believe what you want to believe and vice versa. How long do you think that lasted, especially when she was in church 4x a week.
A lot of our problems could be avoided if men and women were straight up with each other early in the process and made a conscious choice to accept/reject our differences.