Essential Quick Lil Gems on Dealing with Women

[re'up]

So here's the thing. I need some advice man because I'm terrible with women.

We been going back and forth all day today and we both already letting it be known we feeling each other. I'm just trying to have some fun. Nothing too serious. Should I just ask her out for drinks?

uhhhh yeah, sounds like she would be down to just send her address. If you want to be smoother or sexier, and feel it out say "when am I seeing you"

if you want to be really direct, just ask her over to your place.

if you want to be the most conservative, ask her out for a drink, somewhere upscale/nice hotel close to your house, but STOP going back and forth.

She asked for you number, and is blatantly sexually flirting with you, it doesn't get more explicit.

 

[VertigoKnight]

So here's the thing. I need some advice man because I'm terrible with women.

We been going back and forth all day today and we both already letting it be known we feeling each other. I'm just trying to have some fun. Nothing too serious. Should I just ask her out for drinks?

Don't be that guy that can't man up and progress things smoothly. Especially when shes making it easy.

How explicit is the back-and-forth? Sometimes drinks aren't even needed.

But I prefer to at least go for one to build the excitement up even more. That or you suss out what her fave drink is and suggest a drink at your place.

 

[Silkk]

saw my ex fiance today, its amazing when you finally reach the zero feelings don't even care

BREH!

My ex life been shyt for the past 6 months......And I honestly don't even care to reach out and shyt on her.

It's honestly like Drake said:

"When I look back I might be mad that I gave this attention"

 

[DA_LURKA]

So i was training this new employee last month and she just told me she was transferring to another location.

She tells me I'm the coolest person she's met so far and ask for my number.

So we get the texting.

She's Mexican and I'm telling her
"I bet you be at the Mexican dances with a Corona in your hand and some dude with some fly ass alligator boots".

She tells me "naw I don't like paisas, I like my men dark like chocolate and coffee"

Now she came off super Mexican. Like Mexican that don't mess with black dudes. I'm feeling like this is all signs for me to pursue but idk. She doesn't work with me anymore so if it does go south I don't have to see her at work.

If you feeling her what is there to lose?

 

[Balla]

Have been slowly pushing more calls, and less/no texts at all, which isn't easy, and seems, and probably is counter intuitive, because you are going against what we now consider established social norms,

but more and more, texting just exhausts me, it's like these little shallow drips of dopamine, sometimes its highly effective and easy way too communicate, but too often it's just tiresome and not satisfying. We have all collectively put too much on it, and now it's like you feel totally disconnected from someone if you aren't in constant digital contact.

At least with a phone call, it's a bigger/more risky bet, but it will get it all done quickly, and more effectively, and both people will probably feel better. Starting to feel like a p*ssy texting, is the truth LOL sometimes.

Yeah, I feel it’s quicker to talk than text all day. You get more of a vibe n all that. I only text for specific things.

 

[The ADD]

So here's the thing. I need some advice man because I'm terrible with women.

We been going back and forth all day today and we both already letting it be known we feeling each other. I'm just trying to have some fun. Nothing too serious. Should I just ask her out for drinks?

No since you are both showing each other interest, don’t try to meet her

 

[360dagod]

So here's the thing. I need some advice man because I'm terrible with women.

We been going back and forth all day today and we both already letting it be known we feeling each other. I'm just trying to have some fun. Nothing too serious. Should I just ask her out for drinks?

Lol yes u should

 

[Ahadi]

Another note when she says - she needs space

What she is saying roughly translates into the following: "I am not really interested in you. But, at times I still get horny and you are safe for that. And, there maybe other times I need a companion for social events and you are still somewhat presentable. It's not you, but it's me, I don't like to be alone, and I will continue to string you along until I find someone else. Oh yeah, there is nothing you can do to change my mind."

 

[Ahadi]

Haven’t been on here in a min. Dealing with a 9 - Asian & white / 24 / gymnastics / inexperienced in bed / never had a boyfriend, but has great values & great relationship with parents.



This might be a unicorn.

 

[VertigoKnight]

Haven’t been on here in a min. Dealing with a 9 - Asian & white / 24 / gymnastics / inexperienced in bed / never had a boyfriend, but has great values & great relationship with parents.



This might be a unicorn.

These Asian/white Hapa girls might be the wave

The one I met in December wanted to be my primary and I wanted the same thing. Chick has been nothing but pleasure in all aspects since we met. She also gets looks everywhere we go as she looks extremely striking. But is extremely modest. Is not a social media addict and isn't out here courting attention from random men.

It's hard to meet genuine people these days.

Was out with her on Thursday and I was talking about the next few weeks of work for me. I have a big project that is close to release that may require a lot of extra work and maybe a bit of stress. She asked me with no pushing, what can she do to support me.

Its small things like that, which get me.

 

[The ADD]

Haven’t been on here in a min. Dealing with a 9 - Asian & white / 24 / gymnastics / inexperienced in bed / never had a boyfriend, but has great values & great relationship with parents.



This might be a unicorn.

Jinxed it

 

[MikelArteta]

She asked me with no pushing, what can she do to support me

 

[bigde09]

saw my ex fiance today, its amazing when you finally reach the zero feelings don't even care

One of the GOAT feelings.

No matter how much a breakup hurts… one day you’ll be When you see her.

 

[A Pimp Named Slickback]

 

[Mandarin Duck]

uhhhh yeah, sounds like she would be down to just send her address. If you want to be smoother or sexier, and feel it out say "when am I seeing you"

if you want to be really direct, just ask her over to your place.

if you want to be the most conservative, ask her out for a drink, somewhere upscale/nice hotel close to your house, but STOP going back and forth.

She asked for you number, and is blatantly sexually flirting with you, it doesn't get more explicit.

I went for it
No p*ssyfooting. Just
"make some time for me next weekend"
We'll see what happens.

For the dudes who struggle with women and hate the whole "just be yourself " advice it's I have to say it's kinda true.

I wasn't really tryna flirt with her or anything. I'm just kinda funny, know how to show my personality and I've been told more than once I make people feel comfortable around me real fast.

shyt the first day we met we was in the parking lot waiting in my car just talking while she waited for her ride.