Have been slowly pushing more calls, and less/no texts at all, which isn't easy, and seems, and probably is counter intuitive, because you are going against what we now consider established social norms,
but more and more, texting just exhausts me, it's like these little shallow drips of dopamine, sometimes its highly effective and easy way too communicate, but too often it's just tiresome and not satisfying. We have all collectively put too much on it, and now it's like you feel totally disconnected from someone if you aren't in constant digital contact.
At least with a phone call, it's a bigger/more risky bet, but it will get it all done quickly, and more effectively, and both people will probably feel better. Starting to feel like a p*ssy texting, is the truth LOL sometimes.